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A friend of mine lost her spouse to suicide. Things were very rocky before he passed and he was quite angry. There was lots of hostility to say the least. Strange things have been happening to her in the house, his belongings have been falling; she asked if he was there and a bottle fell over, she has been having strange dreams where he is mad and one of them he was trying to harm her. She is scared and uncomfortable. She is nervous that he hates her and wants to cause her harm. Thoughts?
Ps. I’m definitely not a medium but when I was 4 I use to see my dead grandfather. It happened a few times and he would just be standing there at the end of the stairwell. I’ve never had any other interactions with spirits or anything. However, I have this overwhelming feeling that my friend’s husband is having a hard time passing over. I have felt this even before my friend told me what has been going on.
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Is it likely for a spirit to be mad?
updated 1 year, 3 months ago
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Your friend’s husband might mot have crossed, or,her anxiety is expressing itself through telekinetic bursts.
The only way to be certain, is for her to have a shaman or medium visit the home, to assess the situation. She could also hire a medium that works remotely to try to cross him if he is still there.
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I don’t know if “likely” is the right word but possible and perhaps common for certain kinds of deaths. It’s possible that due the fact he passed from suicide that he doesn’t know he’s dead. It’s somewhat common (or more common) for spirits of suicides to not realize they committed suicide. Often they eventually get there and realize it but sometimes it requires intervention of a psychopomp (either a person or spirit).
So if he was angry in life, it would make sense to me that he might be angry still, if he’s unaware he’s no longer living. It’s also possible that the anger that’s felt by the living, is because he doesn’t understand why he’s not being “heard” by the living. Again, not realizing your dead, and then being ignored tends to cause people to become angry.
In either case, it would be wise for your friend to contact a medium (specifically who does psychopomp work). You need to ask if they do, because so many people who call themselves “mediums” now don’t do that kind of thing.
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Not to scare you, but I don’t think this is her late husbands spirit. The grief is probably causing either telekinetic events or a different entity to feed off the charged emotional atmosphere. Pretending be someone’s loved one in spirit gives them better access and even attachment, prevents them from being properly kicked out.
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Not likely but it can happen
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Spirits are energy, and their are positive and negative ones so I guess you can interpret this as madness 😅
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Two possibilities I see here:
1. Even though he may be at peace there might still be residual energy left behind.
2. Your friend is causing these events herself unintentionally from her emotions manifesting into uncontrolled energy. Otherwise known as a poltergeist.
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No I HIGHLY doubt that he’s having a difficult time. If anything based on what you said, it feels like he’s been trying to get her attention, not harm her in any way. As for the dreams of your friend, it sounds like since she has a fear-based perspective that he’s angry at her, that perspective is affecting her dreams and manifesting the scenario she thinks his intentions hold. Which is NOT the case. Her spouse is not angry. Spirits let go of their concerns and troubling situations when they transition and they reflect on lessons they’ve learned life. Also known as a life review if you will.
Many spirits come through to try and make amends with their loved ones who are still living. Never to harm. I’ve NEVER heard of a case where that happens. Only in horror movies, or when someone is trying to frighten people on YouTube, when really they’re just interpreting the situation due to again, their fear-baded perspective.
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No, never. This is just her fear.
