- September 18, 2023 at 3:58 am#553110
Well.. how do you guys deal/cope with your Virgo Venus?
MestizapandaGuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
Don’t pick everything apart 🙂 as someone who has a lot of virgo in their chart.. we are our worst nightmares! Once a virgo stops being a perfectionist and truly loves themselves they have so much power. Definitely under rated.. I’d say you have to fight for it buts it’s worth it in the end. So stay strong! And admire the little things and don’t stress the small ones
brokenbiscuit76GuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
Cure? Cure yourself from having such ridiculous expectations on people and expecting perfection. I say this as a Virgo Venus and Mars. Life and relationships becomes a lot easier when you allow people to be who they are with their flaws included.
This includes yourself, we are notorious for picking not only others apart but ourselves. Have some compassion and know that it’s okay to fuck up, not only in life but in relationships. Things don’t always have to be perfect.
leedleedletaraGuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
You are your own worst critic … as well as everyone else’s! Try to balance it out with perspective. Maybe your partner is bothering you because of x y and z which is like almost an obsessive analysis focusing on one problem… but when you look at it from a macro pov, has your partner been consistently growing and improving over time?
Also I am grateful for my virgo Venus for giving me some real standards. Because my cancer sun wants me to SUFFER in the name of love.
mtncrispfreshGuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
I detach from it, cause I can be a cold so cold at times. (I’m a Virgo sun, venus, mercury)
I look to my other placements for help. I try to remind myself that I cannot fix others & they are not mine to control, I can only control myself. Try to get out of your head as much as possible & live in the moment.
goofygooberrock1995GuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
I focus a lot on how I can improve my appearance to compensate for my struggles with social skills.
opportunitysure066GuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
Be happy your not mindlessly settling. It could be worse, imo.
DrogonnoGuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
No energy for love r.i.p
Virgo Venus house 9
seahag_barmaidGuestSeptember 18, 2023 at 3:58 am
If there’s someone in your life who constantly disappoints you, they probably don’t need to be there.
No one but you can decide if your standards are too high. I’ve learned to overcome my tendency to give and nurture everyone who needs immediately, because some people are all need, and you establish a pattern and they just walk right over you. People should love you for who you are, not what you do for them (unless they’re like… 5 years old or under).
Romantically, I decided to put my standards to the moon and now I have a guy who I’m proud to introduce to people. I see his flaws and they’re ones I can live with.
I also would have been happier single than in my previous relationship where I was continually embarrassed by the level of inconsiderate behavior, so I chose myself and left.
As my Virgo sun dad says, this is it. You only get one life.
I really enjoy creating and collecting beautiful useful objects. I think this is a good remedy for the perfectionist tendencies. I work in an engineering field which is also creative and a great outlet for my critique tendencies.
Learning to work with my natural self, hair, skin has been well worth it. The kibbe body type, seasonal colour analysis can be fun for clothes, but also just figuring out what helps your skin feel best, getting a haircut that suits your hair texture instead of trying to make it something it’s not. Weirdly, nail care and shoe polish/sneaker cleaner has helped me feel my best.