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heather_violet123MemberWhat are your emotional needs and how do you tend to them?
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yinay727
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amLove to laugh and joke and try new things.
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boopityboop2
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amThe truth. I have an allergy to deceit
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jupitermoon444
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amSaggie moon here, and she’s in the 4H along with my pluto & Chiron. Tbh, I have a hard time pin-pointing my emotional needs. Romantically, I feel as if it’s all over the place. When someone does show me stability and longevity, I feel distant and go long periods of not talking to them/abruptly end it. I also tie this to my childhood & upbringing.
I do know for a fact that I find the most peace by the ocean or when i’m driving/long road trips by myself. When i’m with my family (only my siblings and occasionally my parents) do I feel the most comfortable and feel as if I can express my genuine emotions (anger, sadness, happiness). Although I have my bouts of solitude and quite frankly enjoy them, I then begin to feel a little antsy and once again feel fulfilled after a weekend of going out and partying.
As I type this out, I started to think maybe I do know what my emotional needs are, and I think it’s maybe just doing what I want. Like, being by myself without anyone bothering me, the ocean, solo travels, and every once and a while going out and socializing.
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harrybeastfeet
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amTwo of my besties have their Moon in Sagittarius. They would wither and die without literal adventure. They need to meet new people and have new stories to tell. Excellent travel companions, 10/10.
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FromTraumaToTarot
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amDefinitely to be seen and understood. I really enjoy helping people and being of service. To feel welcomed and like my presence is wanted. If I feel too stressed out or overwhelmed by something I tend to go into “hermit mode” until the storm has passed
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masxquismx
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amSpace and closeness, it’s fucked up lmao I don’t know what I want
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WishThinker
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amfollowing to find out lmao
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march_rogue
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amI have many but get none. lol I’m a Pisces Sun, Scorpio Rising but that Sag moon helps me be less lazy but emotions are all over the place. I don’t think Sag can herd my crazy sheep back to the pasture well at all.
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lazycaracal
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amSag moon with my sun in the 9th.
Other people need to be as real, up front and direct as possible with me or the fire gets hot I suppose. Being able to play around and be goofy, but also have meaningful experiences and talks.need time to go on a walk in the woods or hang out by the beach or something every week. I find a lot of comfort in ideals, words, beliefs ; I’m a very spiritual person at this juncture of my life – but even when I was a stubborn teenage atheist, skeptical and Earth Dominant, I loved to read and learn about different faiths. I religiously read philosophy, poetry and literature that inspired me.
between my moon sign and my taurus sun placement, I have found that my beliefs and ideals are burning to a fault sometimes, very connected to my emotions for sure, as well as my identity.
Some of us can be prone to short burst of reactionary anger, where literally right after it comes out of your mouth you’re like “fuck, that was too strong/extra” and you’re right back to even keel (nothing scary, just not as chill as I would want to ordinarily be) so having time or type of relationships to be able to step back for a minute when you catch those feelings is great
also seconding what someone else said about changing hobbies all the time! go in full hog only to get sucked into something else in like a month
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lavenderr_candle
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 am12H Sagittarius Moon conjunct Mercury.
I don’t like having emotions, and I have a hard time recognising what I’m feeling. I rely a lot on rationalisation to process my emotions, and if someone asks me how I’m feeling, I’ll probably just describe a situation or give an opinion. “That doesn’t answer the question!” When I was a kid I went to therapy, and after a few months, the therapist asked me to draw how I felt about what we’d talked about so far. I drew a big, colourful question mark. My main emotional needs are solitude and quiet, I spend a lot of time alone.
When it comes to relationships, if the feelings were strong, I used to run away (literally, I’ve moved cities a few times right after starting to date someone I’d been into for a while.) Found someone who’s changed that, can’t believe it’s been over 2 years. I felt like running away (not literally this time) a lot at the beginning, but I somehow stayed.
When I was younger, I used to be stupidly enthusiastic about things sometimes, to a degree that was not shared by most people, lol. I’ve calmed down a lot.
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Lioness-
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 am☾☌♃ in ♐︎
If there’s not a satisfactory communication with people, I’m out fast.
Read and been studying a lot of various stuff in life, lot of spiritual stuff.
Not sure it’s only on an emotional level. It’s a lot about awareness in communication for me. But maybe that also comes from ☉☌♆ in ♏︎
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speciebean
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amSag moon – direct! words just fall out of their mouths. Also itchy foot – who wants to go on a trip? (to anywhere, including just the grocery store.). My wife has a sag moon and she gets cabin fever if she stays home for more than a day at a time. Love her!
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Top_Blueberry4528
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amI need honesty and clear communication with clear intentions otherwise I’m out. And when I feel a lack of these things in my life/relationships, I turn to another reality (sims, books etc), distract myself (such as going out with friends) or travel (love how road trips clear my mind)
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adhesivebandages
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amconstant, steady growth
freedom to do anything at any time
a life of principles
truth and direct communication
fun, lots of fun
higher knowledge
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everyonewants2Bmee
GuestOctober 2, 2022 at 3:35 amNeed to feel there is something on the horizon for me, something positive, some opportunity