Did a 3 card love/relationship draw. 1 – me (page of swords), 2 – lover (knight of cups ), 3 – dynamic (temperance)

[Jessica]

Did a 3 card love/relationship draw. 1 – me (page of swords), 2 – lover (knight of cups ), 3 – dynamic (temperance)

Discussion

[TheeQuestionWitch]

I see the page of swords as full of things she wants to say or questions she wants to ask, ready and waiting for the opportunity to do so.

The knight of cups rx is more in his heart than his head, but he struggles to reconcile this with reality, and prone to avoiding reality as a result.

The temperance card in this case says to me that it doesn’t have to be one or the other. Head and heart can be combined in unexpected ways, and with communication (NOT promised to be easy conversations), you can find middle ground and avoid take it or leave it propositions.

[mooniquiet]

There is this guy that I have been very interested in. We have been hanging out more and recently slept together. I have been thinking about where this could lead.

Me pulling a page of swords makes me thing I need to be patient and things might be taking a little longer than I want but I’m ready when they will. Pulling a knight of cups reversed is what kind of got me down I just think heartbreak maybe us sleeping together meant nothing to him. But then the card I pulled for dynamic is temperance and I felt maybe there’s hope. Idk I’m confused that I could have pulled the knight of cups for him but our relationship dynamic is temperance. Help is appreciated!

[dosnivicik]

See how the page is looking away but inclining the sword towards him? The sword being the suit of the mind I think you are being too cerebral about the relationship and in that way closing yourself to your feelings and your intuition as well as not giving yourself in emotionally, just like the page is leaning towards the relationship but looking to the other side, full of clouds, which are ideas and concepts you might have about how a relationship should look like which are keeping you distracted from this relationship in particular. Is it possible that you are unsure about this in your head but sure in your feelings and mind? He could be perceiving this as mixed signals. The knight of cups I take as that he is having trouble showing his feelings, either out of fear, shame or some other experience. Or maybe he is sensing that you are not open emotionally and hence is nervous on opening up himself. Temperance is definitely a good sign, it means balance and both your energies nos personalities can complement each other if you can get in contact with your emotional self (the right foot of the archangel dipped in the water) and if he can ground himself (the left foot on the ground). If so you can be like the sun for him, bringing him emotional stability, a sense of adventure and realization and inspiration and he can be a garden of flowers for you, full of life and wonder in the little things. For both this will mean a constant supporting of each other’s tendencies in order to serve as a thrust block to higher possibilities.

If you feel like giving some other details or something doesn’t check out I’d be happy to tune it up appropriately.