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    For context, I did this reading while debating whether or not to reach out to someone who deeply hurt me. I previously resolved not to, but I’m unable to move on completely so I’m reconsidering. I also drew the Wheel of Fortune as my “card of the day” today, when I did this reading, so I think this decision is an important one.

    I used an Emerald Lotus Spread, and drew 6 cards.

    1- represents the other person’s purpose in my life

    I drew the 3 of Pentacles, which I see as a positive card. I interpreted it as meaning that this person brings opportunities into my life.

    2- represents how their energy effects me

    I drew Death… Yeah, not ideal. I interpreted this as meaning they will bring transformation and change into my life at the cost of something else. Seems fairly accurate, but I don’t know how that pattern would continue. I don’t see Death as an entirely negative card, but I don’t see it as ideal to have in my everyday life either.

    3- our strengths as a team

    I drew the 5 of Swords. This is one of the cards I’m fairly stuck on, it’s hard to see how the 5 of Swords could be construed as a strength, or if it’s just further demonstrating that this isn’t a path worth walking down.

    4- our challenges as a team

    7 of Pentacles, which indicates we have difficulty enjoying the good times perhaps? There’s definitely a lack of trust.

    5- underlying issue

    I drew the 3 of Cups. I see this as a pretty clear indicator we struggle with celebrating each other’s accomplishments and this is a concerning card to pull in the “issues” section of a friendship reading, imo.

    6- how to better communicate

    2 of Swords, indicating I need to face the problems in the friendship rather than ignoring them. This card is making me doubt the decision not to reach out for some sort of closure, even though the rest of the reading is pretty clear this isn’t a positive relationship.

    I’d really like to hear others’ thoughts on this. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Feel free to ask additional questions.

  • Evaluating Friendship

    honorthecrones updated 3 years, 3 months ago 1 Member · 1 Reply
  • honorthecrones

    February 9, 2021 at 6:55 am

    Read again and ask how to move past this instead of looking backwards.

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