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Discussion
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For example, I am very close to someone whom I love very deeply and have a clairvoyant bond with.
That person has a great deal of healing to do and can be very hurtful in their actions. While I try to remain as neutral and protected as possible around them, sometimes I speak to them in a way that is not aligned with my true character if I feel manipulated, blamed or projected upon, which happens often. I rationally know that those behaviors have little to do with me, and I understand what this person uses them for and what uncomfortable emotions I bring up in them. As the years dwindle on and very little has changed with how they treat me, I find myself growing increasingly frustrated and hurt at how they keep hurting me in the same ways… over and over and over again.
I also think that they feel like my clairvoyance makes them feel like they have little privacy and while I do not actively try to read them, I often do and it makes them feel very observed and surveyed. They usually run and hide and it takes months for us to reconnect afterwards.
My Higher Self and I have specifically talked about this. I have zero issues with how I speak to other people and most, if not all, of my friends and acquaintances find me to be loving, a good listener, and extremely trustworthy. I practice non-violent communication as much as possible and try to be a safe place for others to confide in me and be themselves.
But with this connection, I am really struggling at this point to stay out of my lower chakras when we interact. They keep saying that the way I talk to them is the biggest barrier between us. I am trying my hardest but I am feeling low on empathy because I only started being more harsh when their behavior became increasingly unhealthy and repetitive for me, about a year ago.
I am damaging our connection by how I communicate and I need to stop.
Any tips or advice or insights are appreciated and received with gratitude.
