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    Hi everyone! This is one of the many venus retrograde breakup posts that are here, and I wanted to ask about feelings of confusion. My partner and I have been together since last year’s March, and were friends first. It was my life’s best relationship ever, it felt very calm and safe with them, and felt really big and magical too. We wanted to get married in a few years and would joke about it often. But they started acting a little weird towards the end and broke up with me sometime later in August. We have been in contact since then, and although they sound regretful + VERY confused about me, I started thinking alright this is for the best. Was out of the blue and really painful but it must mean they’re not the one for me and it’s good it happened now and not later.

    But we were so perfect for each other, and our love was so big, can this really be the end? Will they realize their mistake (which it sounds like they already do…but I’m not sure exactly how they feel) and try to come back? If they do, is it advised to take them back? We are both Pisces.

    I know this is stupid and wistful, but this was true love, this was a radical experience for the both of us to have found each other. The breakup felt…unnatural, even after I’ve convinced myself it was for the best, something is wrong here, like we have made a big mistake and lost the chance at a beautiful life.

  • Feeling Confused about a Venus Retrograde Breakup…

     Aware-Repair2149 updated 7 months, 1 week ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
  • Kooky-Box4109

    September 17, 2023 at 3:54 pm

    I feel the same about my breakup that happened during the retrograde also. 😕

  • Professional-Ring-27

    September 17, 2023 at 3:54 pm

    What are your signs?

  • thecelestialalmanac

    September 17, 2023 at 3:54 pm

    Well Venus doesn’t come out of the shadow of the retrograde until Oct 7, so nothing is set in stone until then. Unfortunately Venus (in Leo) formed a square to Jupiter (in Taurus) for the best part of the retrograde cycle so I recommend googling “Venus square Jupiter Transit” which is a transit/cycle that tends to be noted for a reluctance to work hard and a tendency to overspend and overindulge amongst other things and perhaps in the case of your amour, a reluctance to commit.

    What you’re feeling isn’t stupid or wistful, it’s a normal reaction to what sounds like an emotional rollercoaster with a disappointing outcome, that said, give it til the 7th of Oct, because you are very likely to find out around then the truth of the matter, particularly as Venus forms an opposition to Saturn and Mars squares Pluto – both make or break/push comes to shove aspects. You’ll know one way or the other.

    You’re going to have a beautiful life no matter what. To be born Pisces is a blessing. I never met a Pisces who wasn’t incredibly talented, artistic, compassionate and a lot of fun!

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  • Correct-Cobbler1642

    September 17, 2023 at 3:54 pm

    I’m a Gemini and he’s a Pisces. Yeah, the breakup felt completely unnatural, and he was even showing grandiose gestures of love before the retrograde. We were together for a whole year.
    I’m so sorry about your breakup, and to anyone going through one.

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