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CreatorDiscussion
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TrentParticipantI wasn’t aware I had to use a credit card just to talk to people here. But if this is the case, maybe it should be clear this forum isn’t for free advice…
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CreatorDiscussion
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I thought this was a free public forum to ask advice from those who may have abilities to connect to the other side?
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tillytothewilly
GuestMay 11, 2021 at 11:48 pmI started following for what I’m assuming are similar to the reasons you have. I don’t post asking for anything bc I have my reasons… BUT, I have seen when mediums respond to a post and they seem well received by the OP. It’s all very interesting and has given me some perspective that has helped me in my own grieving process and my personal understanding of what happens to us when we pass, at least as far as I am willing to accept. I hope that you find some of what you’re looking for. If nothing else, pay attention to the posts and you might find someone you feel is legit and maybe you can reach out to them once you’re comfortable/ready.
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AbyssDomme
GuestMay 11, 2021 at 11:48 pmI read for free when I have the spoons and/or I feel “called” to read for someone (meaning spirit is tapping my shoulder saying, read for them)! That doesn’t happen often. I also do not work with the dead in the way that many other mediums do so I am not usually the most appropriate spirit worker for most people who come to these threads.
All that said, reading is work. Would you goto an accountant sub and expect people who are there to do your tax return for free out the goodness of their heart? Probably not. I do not know why people think that readers, should work for free. It’s a skill and a calling not dissimilar from people who do massage. An hour massage is work for the massage therapist. If MT’s want to donate their time, because they want to advertise, or otherwise do a good deed that’s awesome, but people with back problems shouldn’t expect to walk into someone’s office and get a free massage.
If you associate reading with “divinity” or those who are spiritually called. You do realize that people like priests, don’t have to pay rent right? The church pays those people so their basic needs are met. Us regular people, we still have bills to pay, so no, it’s not often free because people have to eat and take care of themselves.
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MissingYesterday
GuestMay 11, 2021 at 11:48 pmCorrect, this is a free forum and I don’t see anyone charging for advice. People who are in need of a reading make posts and are responded to by mediums and there’s no exchange of money there. I also observed that those who charge for their time and effort are also usually upfront about it. Not sure if anyone else experienced something different so can’t generalize them.
I’m not a medium and I’ve had both paid and free readings and they were all fantastic! I am deeply grateful to those who gives out free readings because I know it takes time and effort and it’s even more incredible that they are willing to do it for a stranger. We have to understand that mediums have different needs and requirements and if others choose to request for donations, there must be a reason for it and like I mentioned above, they usually tell you before anything. No one is being forced here.
Just try to create a post and be specific if you need a free reading because I’ve seen many donation based mediums here offer readings for free so it’s a case to case basis for them. Some comment directly on the post and you won’t be charged for it. Just give them a chance.
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Elegant-Equivalent86
GuestMay 11, 2021 at 11:48 pmWhere does it say free? I get not using a credit card but I never thought they gave free readings here.
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Reed528
GuestMay 11, 2021 at 11:48 pmIt can be and I’ll offer where applicable though it can take years to develop in mediumship and its a harsh reality that we live in a world that demands payment, I doubt anyone is intending to seem greedy 🌟