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Hello. I trust everybody’s well. I want to share a situation that I’m finally finding success with addressing. I’ve had very bad dealings with someone stemming from a whirlwind fling that crashed and burned years ago. Needless to say, I was devastated and not having the proper closure needed, I held on to her memory. I had met someone who I’m not with anymore that helped me to move on from her but I didn’t know how hurt I still was. Of course it didn’t helped that she was snooping around places I used to frequent. Looking into why without directly contacting her, I learned that she was just being nosey with no desire for contact but through that came up old wounds that needed healing. Things that I wasn’t aware of that kept me connected to her at least in thought. By addressing this with my workings, I had found a change in my attitude. I no longer think about her or worry what she’s up to and I had finally deleted all of her pictures and donated her artwork to a thrift store. This might not sound like a big deal but before doing this, such a thing was nearly impossible. To finally have the courage and conviction to do that is what tells me that I am making progress. Of course all of this is a natural progression but I’m happy with that. It’s about time!
