Love Reading! New reader here

[Jessica]

My photo wouldn’t upload for some reason.

So whenever I do readings for my relationship I always tend to draw a lot of major arcana cards. This was one I pulled last week, and as I’ve pulled love readings daily, I still pull many many major arcana cards.

I am using the Smith Waite Centennial deck.

I am in a weird holding pattern with my boyfriend and I asked the following:

1. What is he going through/what is his energy
1. Devil
1. This means to me, an imbalance of indulgences. Work and vices. Someone who is possibly indulging in mind/body numbing things as an escape. This card is so funny since he is a Satanist. So the cards have a sense of humor
2. How does he see me/what would he say to me
1. High Priestess
1. A sense of being on a pedestal. He sees me as having growth and potential which could mean a potential for judgment despite the fact that high priestess doesn’t play that. It could also mean that my growth is a lot to take in and he would be ready to take that in at a later point but now is not the time
3. What does he need from me
1. Tend of Swords
1. Understand I have been dishonest, what I’ve presented is not what it actually is. Keep pushing forward, keep moving on
4. How long will this last
1. 5 of wands
1. I’ve read that this means 5 days or spring. It’s been more than 5 days so I interpret this to mean that it will be springtime before this will have a clear path for him. Despite how this impacts me- the path for him will have a bit of clarity in spring.
5. What is the outcome
1. The chariot
1. Success. This is a bit unclear since I cant tell if this spells success for our relationship or ourselves as individuals. As in, this will be a battle and we will come through it, or we will separate and end up better for it.
6. What is the advice for me
1. The tower
1. The basis of our relationship is unstable and upheaval is coming and necessary. Regardless of the outcome, it is necessary for growth. I get to determine what I need, for him his own needs and we can either come together and make that work, or I get to figure that out on my own and move on. Either way, this situation brings out that hte foundation upon which we were establishes was not stable.

Discussion

[Artemystica]

With matters of the heart, it’s really best to chill out and mull over readings for a little while. Relationships move quickly, but daily feels like quite a lot, and you’re going to end up quite confused, or just shopping for the answer you want to hear. Do you have a good reason for daily readings on the same situation?

I’ve also been told that if you’re turning to the occult for answers about your relationship, then you already know the answer.