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I’m so sorry. I posted this to mediums after someone graciously referred me to it but I had no idea that reading requests were not allowed. I was then kindly referred to here. I’m sorry to be a bother.
I am so distraught but numb at the same time. My 26 year old sister died 3 nights ago. She is my best friend in the entire world. 15 months apart. Never been apart for more than very short periods of time. Slept in the same room our entire lives. The sweetest most compassionate most beautiful human in this entire world. I am so sick thinking about where she is right now and if she’s scared. I know this is so annoying but if anyone has a message from her – you don’t understand how much it would mean to me and what it would do for me.
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My younger sister died in my arms 3 nights ago from leukemia… please… please.
updated 3 years, 5 months ago 1 Member · 10 Replies
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Hi, do you want me to pull a few cards from messages of closure deck for you?
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m not a medium, but I lost someone really really close a few years ago. She was my everything. I was drowning in grief in the days following her death and absolutely couldn’t cope. One night, I had the most beautiful dream. She was beautiful and radiant! I touched her face and said “OMG OMG! You are back! You came back!!” I woke up feeling extremely happy and very very peaceful. It was the kind of happiness, 1000x what I ever felt in my whole life.
I would say, it’s just early days. That “visitation” dream will come. You will see/feel her presence again. It was magical! In the meanwhile, big hugs to you and i hope you find the strength to cope. -
I usually don’t do text-based readings, but here’s what I got from reading your post:
Your sister is doing okay. She’s where she’s meant to be so there’s no reason for you to worry about her. She’s on her path and has moved on to the next stage, the details of which are not for you to know. She was indeed the “sweetest most compassionate most beautiful human in this entire world” and this world is such that the good die young. Rejoice that you have had the privilege to know her.
It is you who are in danger, not your sister. The danger for you is to subtly refuse her death or try to fill the void in dysfunctional ways. You have to find it in yourself to *allow* *your sister to die and move forward on her path*. Your respective paths have mingled closely for all your life, but now it’s over. You have to find it in yourself to accept that, as opposed to spending years looking for some kind of substitute or trying to lift the veil on secrets that you are not meant to learn before long.
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I am not a medium but my deepest condolences to you. Take solace in the fact that you did the best that you could and were there with your sister in her final moments, which I am sure brought her peace. I wish you and your family the best during these times.
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I am very sorry for your loss. My condolences and big hug to you.
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I hope you’re doing better. 🙂
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I’m not a medium unfortunately so I can’t help you there. But 5 years ago my sister and best friend died. It took a little while, but she did end up visiting me in the middle of the night. She was just fine (in fact, better than ever) it was me that was (excuse the language) completely fucked up. Keep talking to your sister, either out loud or inside your head – she can hear you both ways. She’s all around you. Your bond is never broken, she’s your blood, in your cells… and you’re forever connected by love. Don’t ever forget that she loves you just as much as you love her. That will *never* change. She’s safe and free. I know it feels scary right now though. You’re probably in shock and that’s normal. She’s probably worried about you too. Try to show her that you’re going to be ok.. if you can. they can feel what we’re feeling.
I’m so sorry for your loss. my heart breaks for you because I know exactly how bad it hurts. Take care of yourself, she would want that.
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I am so sorry for you loss – if you can send me a link to a picture I can see if I pick anything up ❤
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I am a medium. I read your post in r/Mediums. She is fine. She is not in pain. She has not completed a life review or had time to adjust to where she is now. Bit, she is not suffering.
She knows you are in grief. No matter how much you think you are.prepared, you aren’t. She is just trying to give you love and comfort. She is right there, but your grief is new, and intense as it is supposed to be.
You cannot see her or feel her right now, because you are too close to the date of her death and you have not processed or accepted, yet.
Again. She is fine. She is going between the two dimensions to comfort your family and to let all of you feel, that she is relieved of the pain, and that she does love you intensely.
Some mediums recommend waiting two to six months.
I would like you to give her a month to adjust. When you do sense her or see her, it will be when you have moments of calm. And you are in so much pain, you are not experiencing calm.
She is trying.
Here is what I am hearing from her. Have you ever known someone who cried so loudly and so long for help, that they can’t hear anyone respond that they are coming and that you will be okay? This is where you are, now.
She loves you.
I am sending you much love and light.
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Even if you are not ready to say it. Please tell her that ishe did well and that you love her, but, know she had to go. She is right near all.of you. Same space. Different d8mension.
