need help filtering out the dark

[Neville]

i had my first experience communicating with the deceased in 1985 when my grandmother who died violently haunted me. she was so angry that she died and she was terrified of what lay ahead of her. she shook me and screamed at me until i forced her away. she calmed down in a few days once the shock wore off and let me know she was at peace before moving on. after that i was never able to speak to her again.

ever since that first haunting i can communicate with the deceased if i want. but after a couple years i stopped because the spirits i spoke with were always angry, violent, and scared like my grandmother was at first. this was all pre-internet so i couldn’t find a community to help me learn about my new ability.

i’d like to maybe try being a medium again but only if i can filter out the angry/scared/violent/dark souls that refuse to pass on. i have a family now and really worry about inviting negative energies into my house.

any advice on how to block/limit dark spirits so i can talk to those spirits who are at peace?

Discussion

[UnsaltedButterfly]

???? I’m glad you posted! I’ll try and keep this short and then you can ask questions if it’s confusing.

It’s all about boundaries and intentions. Also a little neuroscience (which you mentioned you were a chemist on the other post so I’m sure you’ll appreciate)

The idea is to make your vessel a channel for only higher frequencies.

This requires first a cleansing of lower energies that are connected or in your field. I like to use smoke cleansing, sound healing/healing freq music, visualization and energy manipulation(kinda like reiki). I use these things bc I’m trained in them and they work for me. Whatever works to clear your personal field is fine.

Next I set up my shield/egg/bubble. Again use what works for you. Mine is a bubble and I have a very specific meditation/visualization I do to activate it. I also work with pagans who cast circles and this is a similar process that would also help.

Now that the space is set I get super clear about my intentions. You can say it out loud or in your head but out loud is of course most powerful.
I ask for only what is for my highest good to come to me. I ask that only things that were meant for me be seen. (Pretty important step if your able to see dark entities) I also add in a part about my heart and what comes to me also be operating from their heart space. This will REALLY protect your space and narrow down your “entity experiences” to the max so make sure it’s what you want.

By now you are most likely already naturally in your own heart space just by default but from here I still go into a heart coherence meditation to activate my bubble. The neuroscience part is about brainwaves. The higher realms cannot reach us when we are in high beta waves. This is stress, anxiety, discomfort, anger, etc. (but dark entities SURE CAN!)

So the last part is just making yourself a beacon of frequency the other side can reach. This starts to happen in alpha frequency. And moving into theta while conscious is where the real magic happens. This is a very deep but still awake meditative state.
I think that sums it up 🙂 let me know if I left anything out.

[VisiblePin6]

I don’t think there are any peaceful demons. I mean in reality, they’re dead!

You probably have to not freak out. You probably have keep secretes from your family about what entities you talk to. It may never affect them if you do it right.

So now you’re talking to evil demons like your and my grandmother. I would just talk and just listen and just pay enough attention to detail and try to never ever freak out! It’ll become spiritual scholarship. They can’t help it that they’re dead and neither can you so you’re in the same boat.

[Kay1ea]

You didn’t say your grandmother was an evil demon for starters, so ignore unhelpful comments. I’ve read other posts here that have given really good advice on discouraging negative spirits and ways to protect yourself and your environment. I’m not an expert on this, but hopefully you will get some more replies that give some helpful advice about it.

Edit: This is something that I am interested in myself too. I have had quite a few experiences and never really considered myself a medium as such, but I definitely want to learn more about protection. I have a spirit guide who connected with me (pretty much out of the blue one evening a few months ago) and he is really amazing, and is a huge help. I totally trust him and not sure if I could do this without his help, but everyone is different, and experiences can be different.
I wish you lots of luck!

[EveryoneHasaSoul]

yeah actually i never felt my nana was a demon, she just seemed scared and angry. but she was never the type to accept things she didn’t like. it was just her personality. i believe she moved on peacefully within a few days.

all other spirits of the departed ive contacted seem less willing to accept their deaths. sounds so hollywood but i think that they remain here because they are too sad or scared or angry to move on. these are the only spirits that come to me when i open myself to the departed.

i don’t think i’ve ever interacted with a demon, but i guess it’s just semantics.

does anyone have suggestions on how to block negative spirits? or ideas on why i only seem to attract negative spirits?? thanks in advance.

(side note: i’m an old guy not a woman. first time in my life anyone has referred to me as “she.” it’s been very interesting to read these posts with the wrong gender. like i said, in an old guy and never really got the whole transgender pronoun thing. just never part of my generation. but i now realize how unsettling it is to have people refer to you with the wrong gender)