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    Hi everyone!

    So I am a cancer woman. My cousin's husband's friend is a cancer man. (Cancer Sun/Sag Moon). We met at a graduation party. He kept saying little playful things to me but never asked me for my number.

    Fast forward 3 months later there was another event. He finally sat next to me and started a conversation. We discovered we were born a day apart and had a good rapport with one another. He said "we should do something for our birthday next year." The conversation was great but it was overwhelming since there was loud music and people around us. He asked me for my number and I gave it to him.

    He called later on that night but I was sleeping and missed it.

    The next day He text me and it was just the basic conversation…. like what are you doing, what are your plans for the weekend?

    The next couple of days we continued to text but I was busy at work so I wasn't able to answer right away.

    I am in my 40s and I'm not fond of texting. I told him that I am not a good texter and I am much better in person.Then, I invited him to take a walk with me but he had to work.
    I let him know that I don't mind texting every now and then but prefer in person conversations and phone calls. He said he understood. And after that he would send me good morning texts but nothing else or phone calls. He let me know his availability and I let him know mine. We are available at the same days/times. He said "We'll work something out."

    BUT It has been 2 weeks of the same…. just random texts with no calls and no plans for a date.

    Does he want me to initiate or chase him? Why would you bother going through all of this to get my number only to not initiate anything?

    I really like him and I am more on the traditional side so I am not used to chasing a man or making the first move

    Any suggestions?? Thank you In advance. '.

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