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    Y’all have me nervous.

    I am pregnant with a boy, due mid Virgo season. I am a taurus, his sister is a capricorn– so at first I was jazzed because hey, all earth signs!!

    But then I started checking this sub and everyone hates virgo men.

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  • SpinsterShutInBrunch

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    Virgo here with several Virgo friends. Virgos can be very observant. People view us as judgmental when really we are obsessed with being constructive and seeing our loved ones thrive. Because we can lack tactfulness our observations often come across the wrong way

    We can have standards that are too high which we extremely resent when pointed out, since we can find it really hard to take criticism ourselves. We can have problems with confrontation and we have no problem icing people out of our lives even though it can be really painful. We can definitely struggle with practicing gratitude, not taking things for granted, and communicating our feelings. We can be big worriers as a result.

    We are very detail oriented and can usually predict problems before anyone else, which can land us in trouble even when we’re right (I think a Virgo probably came up with the phrase “don’t shoot the messenger”). Despite our reputation for organizing we can be huge slobs and the struggle against hoarding is very real. We really should be in charge of running everything except our own lives.

    It’s often said that Virgos are happiest when serving but I know I can be resentful about that. I need to remind myself to be grateful for what I have, and that bringing joy and helping others is empowering.

    We Virgos need to remind ourselves to have fun with it, because when we do, we are the life of the party.

  • Apprehensive-Tank-41

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    I wouldn’t pay attention to the hate on this sub because like somebody else said. Every sign gets hated here. But Virgo Men and Virgos in general are very observant, Analytical, and hardworking. With him he will always get his work done and strive to be the best he can be in his career field. The cons would be that he can be critical and have a hard time expressing his feelings. I’m a double Virgo and have a hard time expressing my emotions. Maybe because I don’t have any water placements in my chart. Also since we are Mercury ruled we need a lot of mental stimulation.

  • Competitive_Aioli_69

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    My baby was supposed to be a Virgo, luckily she stayed in til Libra season started lol week overdue

  • lambulambu

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    As a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon – I very much love my bff who is a wicked smart Virgo lawyer and my insanely smart and sweet Virgo fiancé. Virgo’s are amazing – worry not!

  • Zealousideal-List779

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    I raised a Virgo son, prepare yourself for a child who loves to have a clean room, they will notice if you moved their shoes from the left side of the bed to the right side, particular about their clothes/style, does homework, goes 1000 percent into anything their into ( sports, playing instruments, etc). Only thing is when things don’t go perfect they might take it out on the person they love the most. Out of my 4 children he is the most consistent, helpful and driven. Congratulations, you’re gonna have a great time just listen and help them relax, as they tend to be high strung.

  • HeyHayHayyy

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    Virgos are the redheaded stepchild of earth signs. They are very diff from Taurus and Capricorn and really hard to pin/get to know.

  • lolbb47462673959

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    They are really repressed and anxious and take out all of their bad feelings on the poor suckers interested in them. They worry so much they hardly ever get around to doing things. They are so critical of everyone. Also themselves. It can be debilitating.

    Sometimes. Lol.

    They have kind hearts though.

    I’m sure you can raise yours right!!!

  • SpiritualSag96

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    The only annoying thing I’ve seen about Virgos is that they think they know *everything* yet tend to have a poor intuition since they’re so logically-driven.

    Yes, they can solve practical problems and make great engineers, stylists and performers in general, but they tend to have the perspective that their word triumphs above all. That’s just been my experience with them— every single time one of them says their “intuition” and “divine wisdom” tells them something, it’s usually proven wrong.

  • Great-Asparagus7731

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    I appreciate all the feedback- the positives, the negatives, and all the advice on how to navigate raising this little dude.

  • hopeforpudding

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    (F) Libra here, had a friend in high school who is a virgo. She has a great personality, very loving and full of excitement. She can be a bit much, but I can still appreciate the good qualities. We don’t hang out much, she’s busy being a mom, and a happy one! I don’t think I remember dealing with many virgo men, but I wanted to add some positive things.

  • IllPaleontologist926

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    Rank signism

  • notsorrynotsorry

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    We’re observant. Listen to him for an unseen perspective. Perfectionism can paralyze us, teach him it’s okay and natural to make mistakes and to start somewhere.

  • NurseScorpio_Gazer

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    Check his whole birth chart after he’s born.

  • amyjoy21

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    Because they’re critical and frugal with money and emotions. But all signs have positive/negative traits. They’re also helpful, like to share, not super demanding, good at finding the flaws in things and fixing them, etc.

  • GoldConfusion6851

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    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 am

    So so many reasons

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