What apects in natal chart makes a person socially inept

[Charles]

Help me pls???????????

Discussion

[goodonion2]

I actually have a placement in my chart that states clumsy social interactions, ascendant square venus. However the only other indicator I can think of is maybe looking at your 3rd house, negative aspects to Venus and Mercury.

Edit: fixed a word that embarrassingly didn’t get to fast enough. ????

[whitegoldfish7]

Maybe afflictions within the 3rd/7th/11th house for friends, one-one-relationships and groups

[drumgrape]

Do you have a lot of Sag? This can manifest in quirky ways sometimes.

[itsjoanoclock]

Saturn in first, maybe in 7th too. Chiron in 7th

[cabinet_door]

Mercury in Pisces for sure

[101bees]

Saturn in 11th house. I have personal experience lol. It’s very hard for me to make friends.

Not sure if this gets talked about much but Chiron in 5th house. It’s a wound to your confidence, which does affect how you interact with people.

[aeln00]

Look at the position of your mercury. I’ve always been shy/awkward and struggled when it came to communicating with others and have suffered from social anxiety since I can remember. I have my Mercury in Sagittarius conjunct to my IC (4th house cusp) and square to my ascendant, square to Saturn, and opposite my moon. It’s difficult for me to get my point across and I can’t seem to ever say what I mean to say.

Difficult aspects to mercury (square/opposition/some conjunctions) can lead to challenges in communicating and relating with your immediate surroundings. Such as not picking up on social cues or difficulty relating to others. Hard aspects with Venus, Saturn, moon, ascendant, or descendant, can all possibly manifest this way

Mercury in the 4th house esp conjunct the IC can express itself as someone that is private and just quiet in general or someone that socially isolates themselves

Also, look at the ruler of your chart. The ruler is whatever planet rules your ascendant. For example, my ascendant is Virgo so my chart ruler is mercury. This kinda accentuates mercury in my chart and all of the hard aspects so it has a pretty big impact on me. Hope this helps!

[MaximalRecord]

Mars or Saturn rising?

Afflicted Venus or Moon?

[Own_Meat8465]

Saturn in 3rd. Sun in 10nth square Uranus in 1st.

[crazyhow]

i have chiron in capricorn in the 3rd ???? my 7 house ruler is in the 12H (venus) idk i’m socially inept too with only 2 friends

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