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these are two separate questions, so i apologize for any confusion! but yeah i have a client who only accepts a message if it's what they want to hear. i mean obviously it's their life and choice to do whatever they want. but ive been working with them for a while and i had patience for it at first but now i am losing it.
i gave a message today and they totally flipped it into something else and refused to acknowledge poor treatment and a lack of care from the other person. im getting annoyed with it because it feels like im wasting my time. i dont know if im just moody or what (dont think so though), but im starting to think about no longer reading for this person.
i cant make them see the truth and honestly im not interested in making anyone do anything. but is it really productive to keep doing these readings if they only hear what they want and completely flip the message? maybe its my fault for showing the cards but i just wanted to be transparent. im not really sure where to go from here. i dont want to waste my time and energy, but i dont want to feel as if im being cold either. especially unnecessarily.
where do you all draw the line? do you think it is normal to feel guilt for considering ending this kind of relationship?