why do i dislike virgos and cancers so much?

[Charles]

i’m a taurus and i don’t pay TOO much attention to astrology but every now and then i look into it just to read up. and i haven’t seen anything about why i wouldn’t get a long with virgo men or cancer women but i can’t help but notice that every time i have a really bad falling out with someone or have a really bad feeling about a new person i later find out that if they were a man they were a virgo and if they were a woman they were cancer. i can literally recall twice ever that this was not the case because every single other time it has been the case and i just don’t understand why. when i have a bad feeling about someone i make sure not to ask their sign or look it up because i don’t want to find out they’re a virgo/cancer and then dislike or treat them differently based on that but then what are the odds that every time after the fact it turns out to be the case???

Discussion

[StellaGraphia]

You’d need to look at your chart and determine what it is that virgo and cancer placements would aspect in your chart. Figure out what those placements would trigger, and how they would create conflict of some kind.

You’d also need to look at your own blind spots, and why you’d be creating relationships with certain kinds of people (assuming these are relationships of choice). Because clearly, every single sign has healthy expressions and unhealthy expressions. So, it is not possible to say that “virgos and cancers are difficult”. Too many people do just fine with them, adore them.

[MontiMont]

If you’re talking Sun Signs then that’s maybe something you psychologically imposed on yourself, but it would be nice to check your moon and aspects

But let’s say you have heavy Taurus chart and you’re talking heavy loaded charts with Cancer and Virgo then you dislike 2 very different personalities which is weird because Taurus has good compatibility with both (I mean a sign that would serve you? And a sign that you can cuddle and have all the cravings?)

[Koolaskimdeal]

Ngl, I’m a Taurus with cancer rising and a Capricorn moon. Plus Taurus Mercury and Venus and I do not trust Virgo’s at all. AT ALL. I just have never had a positive interaction with a Virgo (especially male). They are so shifty and hot and cold and seem very self centred. I just don’t seem to get their energy at all and I’m quite happy to not be involved with them. Cancers I love though, I do find I generally get along with male cancers more than female cancers but yeah