Why don’t I get along with male Libras?

[Charles]

I’m a Gemini on the Gemini / Cancer cusp day. In fact, until recently finding out my exact birth time, I always thought I was a Cancer. I’ve noticed a clash with most male Libras. Yet, Gemini is supposed to be compatible with Libra? Not so much with the female Libras but still a little. Any ideas?

Discussion

[StellaGraphia]

It’s not about the signs. It’s about the aspects. So, look at your chart. What aspects would planets in libra make to the planets in your chart? We can’t post charts in this sub, but just take a look at it. Things in capricorn or aries in your chart would be squared by someone’s libra planets, for example. But there’s more to it than that. A libran’s mercury will be in either scorpio, libra or virgo, and one would want to see how those placements interacted with your chart.

[DisastrousBet7320]

My guess is you are irrational or disorganized. Libras love logic. Let’s say you have ideas you can’t explain or defend, that will trigger a Libra, especially if your defense is some emotional response that doesn’t match reality.

[whoitbe93]

I’m a libra sun, and I’ve had libra and Gemini friends. I think libras can be a little lazy, flaky, superficial, and too focused on their appearance. I think you might have more luck with a libra if you can have a one on one with a libra. In groups they kind of lose themselves. I think because they focus on being liked and making sure the group dynamics suit them. Next time you’re around libras try making one on one contact. I think you will see a very different person.

[PerfumeOfMoonshadow]

Gemini sun, Cancer moon with Libra sun parents here… I know exactly what you mean…