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Will spells still work if you’re desperate/ can someone explain this to me?
updated 1 year, 6 months ago
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Why not raise your vibration, even if it’s only temporary?
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Idk I’m wondering the same thing cause my energy is terrible like 75% of the time and it feels like I have no control over the waves of emotion
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well it could. But your “desperation”, and “low vibration” may seep into it giving you some not so intended results.
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maybe just some good coffee and stevie nicks is a better way to go? <3
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As you will so mote it be.
Even if you aren’t doing great mentally you can still take the time out to send the message.
Honestly, though, if your friend is needing some space before communicating it might be worthwhile to give them time to process and do what they need for them.
It is understandable to be worried and to want to have a clear path, but they need to also do what is right for them. For many people, though, continuing to push will only make them shut down further b/c they feel pushed around and like their feelings not validated.
You can do the spell, but remember your realm of control is best to work on yourself, especially if you feel down. For sure check yourself and make sure you are taking care of yourself, too.
If you are feeling low and hurting that will impact how you are interacting with them. If you are feeling desperate and erratic that can either make someone trepidatious, or they may have been hurt by previous actions and need time to process.
Don’t let your fear rule you. Consider taking a break, and take some time out to breathe, maybe write in your book of shadows as well. Let the paper carry the weight instead of you, and then you can send your message on its way.
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Try letting go of the situation. Overthinking and worry are useless harmful emotions. It will allow your friend to calm down and for you to be in a better headspace for a more helpful conversation to occur than would if you are panicked or angry by giving this situation some time with both of you apart.
As lust for results/thinking a spell to death has been a mission of mine to bring into discussion for almost twenty years now, Incan say with authority that yes desperation is harmful to a spell. This older article has been a client favorite [https://originalninjacat.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/10/signs-you-may-be-causing-your-active-spellwork-problems.html](https://originalninjacat.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/10/signs-you-may-be-causing-your-active-spellwork-problems.html) on the topic but you need to try to avoid anxious obsession/panic/distress and honestly the best thing possible is to let go of the situation and think of it little if at a for a few days.
Magic can help you but it’s your heart not your head saying this is a major emergency and it needs to change now, and that can really make people upset because a broken heart or a scared one thinking it’s losing someone is trying to convince your body you are in mortal danger. Try to calm down, get some est and try that spell when you feel a bit better
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Some witches here will disagree since green witches and crystal witches and what not try not to use negative energy. In my line of witchcraft I would suggest harvesting this lower vibration in the spell by letting that sadness really steep into it all. All emotions and vibrations are powerful in there own way. If you’re comfortable with working with that disappointment, betrayal, sadness, and anger instead of pushing it aside for the sake of the spell (which is a totally valid option as well) then you should do so confidently.
