💘 A Fool In Love: Neptune’s Story

[OhSoAstrological]

How has Neptune had an effect on your relationships? What are the planetary placements or aspects that show up in your natal chart possessing a Neptunian feel?

Discussion

[cracker-please]

It hasn’t had a bad effect. I have Neptune in Capricorn conjunct Venus, trine my ascendant, square Jupiter and sextile Mars. I believe in love, specifically I believe in my idealized notion of love. In past relationships, if I felt that it wasn’t going to live up to my expectations I would end it quickly. No sense in wasting time and I’m not one to pretend.

This was sometimes problematic though because I couldn’t always articulate why it wasn’t going to work out, I just knew. They’d feel wrong. Maybe if I can change this…? No, sorry but you can’t.

That is the hard part for people; I’m a pretty great partner and they wanted it to last forever. Very happily married now.

[RoadToPervana]

Ooooh. Capricorn Neptune, retrograde and in the 12th house, also square Lilith. The short story of all of my ~serious~ relationships is simple: if I picture us ruling a great empire together, you are mine no matter how you feel about it. When you prove yourself detrimental to my utopian visions, you are a stranger to me. But I will still display a cold grace and kindness for you.

No one lives up to my standards, but I don’t either. So I don’t take it personally. With Saturn conjunct Neptune, I am deeply delusional… but Saturn rules my chart so I am at least hyper aware of this. 😉

[Solwilo]

Neptune pretty much rules my relationships. I have Neptune(rx) in my 7th house, 7th/8th house ruler (Jupiter) is in the 12th house and Venus is in Pisces in the 11th house. My relationships all feel very karmic whether in love or in family/friendships. I feel like I’m here cashing in on karma and completing karma and basically just swimming in karma. Now I’m isolated and I feel like I’m waiting in limbo for another chapter to begin to do whatever needs to happen next. In the meantime, I’m in my head, my dreams and fantasies creating my ideal love, having imaginary arguments with people and situations I still need to heal from and trying to understand what it all means. I romanticize and idealize love and I have no problem deeply indulging in my fantasies of love even though I’m aware that love is way more complicated and messy in our daily lives. I pretty much don’t care though. I’d rather live in my fantasies and dreams at this point than deal with all the healing and hurting that people bring to the table in actual relationships.

[Fi13xQuartz]

retro aquarius neptune, 12th house, opposite cancer mercury (6H), square libra mars (8H). I can be an overbearing/annoying partner but I love hard (I also have a leo venus in 7H lol)!! conflict used to stress me out a lot more in relationships, but I feel like I’ve come to the mature side of those placement in the past few years, especially with my communication

[_The_Dreaming_]

I have Neptune in 4/ 5th (conjunct moon, opp Venus, trine ASC inconjunct sun) I fall way to fast for everyone, I like simply enthralled with some for little to no reason at all I think It doesn’t take much to win over my heart at all

[IntoTh3Moonlight]

I have Neptune Conjunct my moon and I’m a sucker for a sob story and a drug addict. I wish I was kidding 🥹 lmao

But really, I like the artsy, emo, mysterious types. My relationships consist of excessive levels and empathy with a sprinkle of enabling. I’m probably more neptunian than I’d care to admit

[XFiles93]

Neptune conjunct the IC square Venus and Ascendant in Virgo. Trine Sun and Mercury in 11th/12th. Trine Chiron in 9th. Sextile Pluto in end of 1st.

Love hurts and I’m a fool who can’t trust my own heart.

[divinelight3333]

Neptune in Sagittarius 2nd house: a laissez-faire attitude towards sharing my finances as needed.