a question for mediums about spirits

[PaleontologistIcy671]

so when a loved one passes, and they happen to be homophobic, do they still hold the hatred in the afterlife?

edit: thank you all i’ve got a background on what tends to happen ❤️.

Discussion

[Lala_land23jk]

Yes and no, usually many end up learning, eventually, that what the living has deemed weird doesn’t matter in the afterlife. And some won’t cross over because they don’t want to have to discuss their actions/beliefs that they held. Some keep them, but I find it’s usually the ones who haven’t begun/finished transitioning to the afterlife (they haven’t crossed over into the light yet and finished adjusting and additional healing, etc.).

[tatsandsass]

Hold up. Personalities remain the same but values and beliefs may change now that they have infinite love and understanding. I saw a video on Matt Frasier’s TikTok about this exact scenario earlier today. So no, they do not still hold onto hate in afterlife, only love.

[nofalvs]

In my experience, spirits are as they were in life, for better or worse.

[splenicartery]

From the Near Death Experiences I’ve heard and read, people realize the limiting beliefs they had and humbly understand that love is the most important thing of all. So I would say no.

The understanding gained by going into the light changes from the small human mind they had while alive and the expansive soul understands so much more. They undergo a life review too where they feel any pain they may have caused others as if they were the other person and they learn from this too.

[PWcrash]

Spirits reflect who the person was in life.

[AnaAlesea]

Nope, they become aware of the error in their ways, and physical human conditioning. As mentioned above they understand the frequency of love because they are love and having hatred towards anyone else for any reason is having hatred with themselves. What I have seen multiple times in my readings with various clients is that they acknowledge the fact that they had that ignorance, and they explain that now they are no longer holding on to that very limiting belief.

[OfSunMoonEarth]

Some spirits need help to cross over because of intense feelings they hold onto on life prior to their death.

Personal bias is not an exception. They are still the person they were for better or worse.

[DreaJoyce]

It all depends on that particular spirit. Every situation is different. Some spirits hold on to earth. Others let go and all they know is love. Most let go of all the silly stuff.. very few CHOOSE not to.

[sivviop]

not so much

[Clean_Hedgehog9559]

Lol what?