A week after my boyfriend passed, I finally had a dream about him and was left feeling like I’m in limbo

[Nicolina]

I just want to say thank you to everyone that responded and gave me words of comfort during this time. I have gained a lot of knowledge from each of you and I’m very thankful I have somewhere I can share my thoughts, grief, etc with. I do want to share that this past Friday night, I had a dream about my boyfriend. I don’t know if it was just because he’s been so heavy on my mind or if it was him coming to me. But it was very comforting. I won’t get into alll the details lol but we were on a beach somewhere and I remember it being very bright, like there was a lot of sunlight shining in from the balcony to our room. We were in bed, just enjoying each other’s company and to save on details we made lots of love lol. He then asked me twice to marry him, I of course said yes. It ended with him wanting us to get up and go somewhere, I’m not sure where, but I begged him to stay in bed with me, I didn’t want him to leave or us to go anywhere. It took a few try’s but he eventually agreed to stay. We just laid in bed loving each other and then I woke up. I haven’t had a dream about him since then but I still talk to him everyday. I did find it interesting we were at a beach because one of our last conversations we had was talking about going to the beach together. I’ve had a couple other coincidences the last couple of days related to his passing or with what I’m going through but I’m not sure if they are signs from him or if my mind is just over reacting to everything. I hope i have more dreams about him but I’m definitely glad I had that one, it left me feeling in limbo the next day though. Him asking me to marry him made me so happy and sad at the same time once I woke up, but I know my heart really needed that dream

Discussion

[Lovelybrum]

I’m.happy for you. I dream of my husband we lay talking he is as usual giving me advice and being very kind but I can never remember what he tells me darn it . I think its wonderful maybe they are really with us and we join them in their world . Hugs to you .

[Puzzleheaded_Mood139]

Wonderful dream that you had. He will come again and again but eventually it will become less and less. I speak from experience when my father passed away many years ago. I would usually go visit him in his world. When he spoke to me I would understand what he was saying but not all the time. Eventually I do still dream of him but not as frequent.

I would write down those dreams in a dream journal and from time to time read them. I would recommend you do that.

[TheSaltyTarot]

I’m glad you’re feeling better. I hope it’s okay to ask, but would you feel different if there hadn’t been any lovemaking?