am I experiencing the touch of someone whose crossed?

[Nicolina]

I lost my partner about 6 months ago, and since this has happened I sometimes notice the feeling of a tickling sensation, on my cheek or shoulder or body. It occurs usually when I’m laying in bed in the dark, and things feel very still / quiet. I don’t usually feel scared, I kind of just let it happen and lay there, as I like thinking it might be him. The best way I can describe it is it feels almost like a tiny tingling that feels like it’s being implemented by someone or something, because the motions and rhythm are almost like being tickled by someone, in an inconsistent / rhythmic way. It was happening for me a lot last night, and I specifically felt It on my left side, but I would also sometimes feel a tingle here and there in my hair, pressure on my arm, etc.

I also can’t remember if I really noticed ever feeling this before he passed away, and I don’t know if I’m just looking for the signs, or is there someone else whose actually felt the touch of a loved one whose crossed over, that can validate what I might feel like? or if they too experience the same thing?

also a thought that scares me a bit is that this could be someone whose crossed over, that I don’t know. There have been a few times where I experienced the feeling of being watched, but didn’t think it was my partner and they felt… different / less peaceful

Discussion

[RicottaPuffs]

I am so sorry for your recent loss. Your partner’s energy will not make you feel uncomfortable.

If this is someone who has crossed over that you don’t know, a crossed over soul will not make you feel uncomfortable. If this is not someone who has gone to the other side. refuse it permission to be there.

This is our dimension. We make the rules. We set our boundaries. Spirit is not something that happens to you. It is what you allow.

So, try saying something like this, and mean it. “Only spirit that has MY best good and happiness in it’s heart is welcome in this home. IF you do not have the highest intentions, get out!”. Then, cleanse your home energetically and with smoke and/or salt.

It does not have to be expensive. You can use common sage from the cupboard, or rosemary or etc. You don’t need a feather or an abalone shell. I use a cereal bowl or a saucer. It is your determination that does the work, as well as the belief that your house is yours.

It is your intention to clear your space, that clears your space. No crossed spirit or higher spirit will be prevented from visiting you if you cleanse your home, only the ones who are not desirable will be forced to leave.

You have to be firm. You have to believe your home is your castle.

Reject all the Hollywood hype and stereotypes, and take control.

Then, ask your partner to give you positive signs, that are unmistakable, and to help to clear the riff raff. If he can, he will hel

[TheSaltyTarot]

How are your defenses and your wards doing?