Awhile back, I asked if anyone could contact my abuelo. Recently I’ve learned new things about him, how he treated people, and his own father. Does he have any clues or anything to say for himself?

[SalviIrishRose]

Awhile back, I asked if anyone could contact my abuelo. Recently I’ve learned new things about him, how he treated people, and his own father. Does he have any clues or anything to say for himself?

Discussion

[mremann1969]

I’m feel a very strong and controlling person who felt justified by thinking that he knew how things needed to be done, and others weren’t working as quickly or smartly as he thought he thought they should be.

I’m feeling his intentions, at least initially, were good, but he may have focussed to much on things like money, or thinking that he was the only one with the answers.

When he crossed over, and experienced his life review, he seems to have realized that he focussed too much on material things, and not enough on intangibles like love.

I’m feeling that he was trying to build something solid and stable to protect himself, maybe as a reaction to the instability he experienced as a child? He seems to have let go of all of that now and has forgiven himself now that he can see things from a wider view and without the emotions attached.

[AnaAlesea]

When we are in our physical state, there’s a lot of conditional programming in that state. Meaning, a lot of misconceptions about power, or respect, or authority, and we tend to live our entire physical existence, especially those who existed in older generations in that misunderstanding (especially those who choose to not embark on a path of love and enlightenment). Once we crossed over, we return back to our soul state, which means that they understand a lot more and are able to see the bigger or wider picture of things, so they absolutely understand what they did wrong in the eyes of others, but whatever they did was part of their souls journey, so, even if it wasn’t the best of actions, everything that they did lead to an evolutionarily path for all of those who came after them. Do they know that things could’ve been different now from their point of view, absolutely. But they also understand that if even the worst of actions wouldn’t have been taken in their physical lifetime, the spiritual, emotional, mental evolution that it sparked would’ve taken a lot longer to come forward. A good way to know what you do want is to know what you don’t want. A good way to know what you don’t want is the bad experience, or from hearing things, learning vicariously through the lives and the actions of others. So there is more to this, but if the question is if spirit knows how they have hurt and effected people the answer is yes, but the intention was “good” even the actions weren’t