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I have a ghost that haunts or lives in my home, I believe he died on the land since the house was new. He follows me around and now that I’m older his presence is starting to feel unrecognizable… like standing next to a sibling or a parental figure. He’s like a dog when I get home from work, like I got him tied up on a leash, making him follow me.
I’m an attractive young woman, or so I believe I am. I’ve been complimented by lots of people, by the why I look, my eyes, my hair, my face, my body, my voice, and even my laugh.
I’ve had guys flirt with me, and even some women. But I’ve never dated anyone in my entire life. I’m open for a relationship and when someone gives any sort of interest, even the most obvious ones… I act like I always do but add a bit of flirtation back whenever they do it first.But then nothing… The next day they show no interest, don’t even bother to glace at me.
Do I have a jealous ghost or am I just unlovable?
I’ve been told I’m a bit hard to approach because I have this confident vibes. Not sure how when I’m always thinking about what I’m going to eat, when can I go home, or when my favorite YouTube or wattpad author will post. I’m an introvert and like to keep to myself, but I’d like to keep to myself with another person.
I know it might be rude or shallow, and please believe that I’m not a judgmental person or anyone who could hold hate to anyone, and when I do hate someone I usually forget in the next few days. But when I see women who’s beautiful to my eyes… but less attractive in the strange standards we have, I can’t help but feel jealous of them. “How is it that they can get a relationship, but I cant?”
I had a guy show interest for a few days, always obvious about his intentions, flirting, touching… y’know the basics. He even was planing on asking me out in the few days. And when I told my sister in (our house with the ghost nearby) the boy who had the hots for me like a loyal little pup suddenly had no interest, wouldn’t even look at me.
And because of this I feel as though I’m unattractive, the compliments I get from both men and women. Just goes through one ear and out the next.
Am I just depressed and lonely or is the ghost to blame… or am I just crazy.
Or maybe I shouldn’t have even posted this at all.
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Can A spirit or guardian ghost (not connected in anyway) stop you from forming any types of relationships
updated 1 year, 6 months ago
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Maybe you can hire a medium or shamanic practitioner to check out what’s going on spiritually.
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I’ve heard of things like this happening before. Maybe you should get a psychic medium to come into the home and set boundaries with the ghost.
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Read about the shadow self. I believe this is what you are experiencing. I am a medium, and I am also very emotionally driven. When I was in my teens and Early 20s, I went through something that was self-limiting behavior and it also had a spiritual element.
It’s like we subconsciously create our own manifestation to protect ourselves from deep emotional attachment to the living.
Took me years of therapy with a therapist who BELIEVES me when I explain my mediumship abilities to them.
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This sounds like a [shadow self](https://www.uncharted-waters.net/post/tackling-shadow-selves-soul-retrievals). It’s possible that the manifestation is related to your sexuality or intimacy but I would hate to speculate.
>Shadow selves are the energetic and spirit representations of ourselves that get pushed away during traumatic events. They often (but not always) look like “shadow people” being both dark and humanoid in appearance. Other representations of shadow selves can look like various things that we dislike or fear. The MO of a shadow self is to reunite with the person they came from. This can look a lot like a haunting, as shadow selves, are persistent.
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Fascinating
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I can relate to this a lot. A lot of people think I’m single by choice, but it just never happened for me!
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It’s not a ghost causing your problems. You should really book a reading with someone you think seems legit. Be prepared to hear things you don’t want to hear and do work.
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No one living or deceased can prevent you from having relationships, unless you allow it.
Spirit does not happen to you. You allow it to interfere in your life.
Your choices are not being determined by any outside spirit. Sometimes, prospective persons lose interest based on something that you said or did.
You are the driver. Take control of your own life.
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Maybe your “a bit of flirtatiousness” is just not as abvious as you think and they just assume you’re not interested
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Sometimes, spirits do become too attached to people. It’s worth looking into.
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I would suggest getting a medium or spiritual guide to help this energy pass on. I don’t know if the energy he left is able to manipulate other people, but it could be a cause. I guess it all depends on who he is as a spirit and if his energy is able to move on (that’s the feeling and sense I’m getting while I comment, I’ve trusted my intuition many times but can not say this with full certainty as I’m still learning and trying to guide myself 🙂
