Can doing divination make the situation go negative all the sudden? Also can you “prove divination” wrong

[emehaushs]

Like idk what it is but I’ve had like a paranoia about like what if I get a reading that like ohhh your gonna start dating this dude. But then because balance is needed would we eventually fail? Can already knowing the future make it fall apart in the long run? Like can it backfire?

Also can you prove divination wrong? Like let’s say it says one thing but you make the opposite happen or the opposite just happens, is that possible?

Sorry if my questions sound dumb I’m just paranoid

Discussion

[Anthissa21]

It’s possible because it’s all your interpretation. Two different diviners can draw the same set of tarot cards and see two completely different things. Each card having multiple meanings is part of it. As is looking at all the symbols on the cards. So you might be able to ‘prove’ it wrong, but that may be because you missed the meaning of the divination.

As for the relationship, I don’t think that balance works like that. Divination basically says here’s what could happen in a relationship. You can use that information to make sure you’re doing the right things for the relationship (without compromising on your values or your identity of course). So it could essentially make the relationship stronger.

The balance comes into play between the two of you, not the divination. Do you both contribute to the relationship? Do you both listen to each other? Do you support and encourage each other? Those kind of things.

And no, your questions aren’t dumb. 💜

Blessed be and good luck!

[kai-ote]

I have never met anybody that said that their answers from divinations were always correct. Sometimes, we can learn as much from our mistakes as from our successes. Learn from those times that your divination differed with the outcome, and see if any patterns emerge that can improve your accuracy in the future. Good luck. BB.

[lilbiggerbitch]

What you’re describing sounds more like fortune telling than divination. The distinction is subtle, but important. Fortune telling theoretically reveals what *will* happen. Divination is meant to reveal what *could* happen. Fortune telling presumes your future is predestined. Divination offers advice relevant to something otherwise hidden from you, regardless of timing.

If you wish to practice divination (as opposed to fortune telling), it can help to pose your queries in the form of “What do I need to know about X?”

As it pertains to the question about dating, you might ask, “What do I need to know about dating this dude?” or “What’s a possible outcome should I choose to date this dude?” This way the cards can give you more context from which you can conjecture about the future. I find this technique very effective.