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My youngest has always been very sensitive. He feels ALL his feelings very BIG. Since about the age of three, he has had this need to be attached to me non-stop. I’ve jokingly nicknamed him Barnicle Bob. But seriously, if I go in the kitchen, he HAS to be with me. And not just follow, but touching me and either directly infront of or right behind me to the point that I’m literally shuffling room to room. He is always peeking around me into the room we are going into first, before entering.
I also have to go wherever he goes (ie, bathroom, kitchen for water, bedroom for Lego’s) because he is TERRIFIED to go alone anywhere. He refuses to be in any room alone, period. And it real panic when I get up to leave a room without telling him.
I know some of the behaviors are age specific and he will eventually grow out of them, but when he looks around a room before we enter, I sometimes wonder if there is something/someone specific he is hoping won’t be there. He has never SAID there is anything specific that’s scaring him, just that he is scared. (All the time)
I don’t know how to ask if or what he is seeing (if anything). I don’t want to put thoughts in his head that there IS something to be afraid of if we are just stuck in this “phase” but I also want to support him if he is seeing things and doesn’t know how to explain it.
Maybe it’s nothing, but my husband and I are exhausted and not sure what our next step should be. Any thoughts, ideas or people who have experienced something similar would (maybe) be comforting.
Thanks Reddit folks!