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Pretty much what the title says. I knew this person was hurting and wanted to help them, so I did. But some people REALLY don’t wanna hear something, you know how it goes. And you try to think how to soften the blow, put it kindly. What they actually wanted I refused to do due to ethics. It involves their love interest. Their ex. Who has moved on and has a whole new family, married and kids, been YEARS. I know they’re hurting, what they wanted I refused. I knew they’d be difficult (hurt people often are) but I should have just refused. Listened to my gut and said no, I cannot read for you. Drained me and for what, nothing. Now they’re seeking someone else who will do what they want.
What they want is info on ex and new person, to curse them, etc. Such an angry bitter soul. I wish them peace.
Anyone else? Tales from the battlefield as it were lol.
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Did you ever just know someone was going to be a pain in the ass and regret reading for them?
updated 2 years, 6 months ago
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Yikes! That person needs help. It’s been years and the ex moved on. Her trying to curse or hex her ex is the reason why she’s still miserable. It’s her karma from not moving on. I personally would distance myself.
I have had similar things like that happen and I just blocked the person. They was draining all the energy in the room
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I did. Now I try to avoid obsessive, desperate or vengeful type energy (especially about relationships). It gets under my skin for my own relationships and it’s tiresome in general because they never want the actual advice from the cards. Anything that’s not exactly what they have in mind for outcome/advice seems to not resonate even though they’ll say you’ve picked up the person/situation accurately. I don’t regret it but definitely lesson learned.
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Oh yes!
I’ve had a few occasions where with hindsight, I knew I should have listened to that spidey-sense tingling and just apologised & cancelled the reading. I think when you find yourself in that situation you automatically think you can help them, I did anyway, that if you’re firm enough but gentle with it, they’ll see the error of their ways and move on….
I think you just have to get to that point where you trust your own instinct over the urge to help people. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. I personally won’t read 3rd parties anymore because I feel it’s an intrusive of their privacy, but the bonus effect is that it seems to have cut out a lot of those stalkers or those who wish an ex ill-will.
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I don’t think I’ve ever publicly offered readings but I had a friend who knew I was interested in this stuff and I refused to do readings for her. She didn’t have any bad intent but she was really bad at recognising other people’s boundaries and kept asking for readings about things that were none of her business.
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Yes, Absolutely. I did not listen to my Spidey sense. I regretted it. I no longer will do it.
I have started to say, “No”. I had to ghost one person that I could not block.
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spying for curiosity with people who aren’t involved only leads to obsession’s and stalking I wouldn’t have done it either.
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Yes. And I almost lost my abilities a few years ago because of this guy. I couldn’t read at all for nearly 3 months. I made contact with someone not from this realm and they kept asking me for readings. I had to cut him off.
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You see me now, a veteran of a thousand psychic wars
I’ve been livin’ on the edge so long where the winds of limbo roar
And I’m young enough to look at and far too old to see
All the scars are on the inside
I’m not sure that there’s anything left to me (Me)
