Harmful spirits (?) going after loved ones after speaking about them

[Nicolina]

I’ve been communicating and seeing spirits since I was young and now I’m aware that I’m a medium and I like talking about my experiences and my spirit encounters with friends but I’ve noticed that every time I talk about spirits, spirits start bothering them, my boyfriend had sleep paralysis after I told him and he had a few spirit encounters (I was there)

And my friends have been experiencing the same right after I tell them and it always happens whenever I speak about it.

Has any other mediums experienced this? Are spirits that are attached to me doing this? Should I stop talking about my knowledge on spirits if this keeps happening?

I don’t know what to do and if anyone else has experienced the same.

Discussion

[stephyduh]

My guides said this has to do with fear. As a medium, you learn to control fear, understand it better. I believe every medium has experienced fear at one time, but once you realize you have abilities you have to learn about them. You learn to control fear by communicating with your guides and angels, know that you are protected, grounded, centered. Your faith in spirit dulls down that fear until it is virtually gone. Your friends may not be willing to admit that they experience fear when they hear about spirit encounters, but they do and their curiosity is increased. Without realizing they have lowered their vibration while looking about for spirit activity. Anyone with a lowered vibration filled with fear may become a target for an earth bound spirit. My advice would be talk to your boyfriend more about meditation and setting boundaries. Keep in mind he may say to you that he’s not experiencing any type of fear, and that’s ok. I had to have a similar discussion with my husband. Now he firmly believes in protecting your energy, your space. I am so blessed to have a husband that is open minded, his love for me has helped me more than i could explain here. I hope this advice helps you. Just know that guides and angels always want to keep you safe. Ask your guides if you should share a spirit encounter with your friends. I am sending you loads of love and light. 🌄 🌻

[mothsyrup]

Yes, that happens when you speak about any person who is not currently under your protextion

[imgoodatbreathing]

From my experience it depends on the frequency of your friends. I talk to all kinds of entity, this is a neutral place id like to say, and none of my family members aside from my sister has issues usually. And guess who’s also the person with the most surpressed emotions, lies and deceit… My sister. (she also bullied me for years and during the time we lived together the same spirits that showed to her in a spooky way looked normal to me)
Sometimes if people aren’t stable either though then it can become a bit troublesome for some too. Our energy is our responsibility, but we can guide people and help them get to a better place, and that counts for both the living and the dead.
Hope that makes sense, imo the best form of protection is knowing yourself and knowing how powerful you are, and the ability to not judge what you see.

[EmilyNewman011]

yes, it happens

[TheSaltyTarot]

It sounds like the spirits don’t respect you enough.

[Akashagremlin]

Yes i get that too but usually they stick with me. I just tend to be very careful about who I am talking to and what i am talking about.

To be honest I usually get these spirits in line when they come. They don’t really bother my friends though. But again, I don’t talk about spirits to most people around me so…

To be honest, it may sound a bit passive but maybe be mindful about who you mention? As i notice that most harmful entities come when you mention them (at least for me).

[toxictoy]

Sleep paralysis is the precursor to out of body experience. Your own boyfriend may have indicated his interest in his thoughts in the astral realm and it could even be his own guides think he may be ready to engage. Do not look at Sleep paralysis as a negative. We all Astral Project during delta sleep. It’s remembering that’s tricky. When you get sleep paralysis it’s your mind is awake but your body is asleep. If you can calm that fear down you will be able to enter the astral fully awake and conscious.