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It’s been many years now that in every psychic reading I am told I have the “gift”. I just need to stop resisting. Why do I feel extreme fear, when something or someone is clearly near me or trying to communicate? Does this go away in time or is there an outlet I need to pursue to move past the fear?
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Help needed
updated 2 years, 7 months ago
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Why would you want to develop it? If there’s no solid purpose, fear will always overcome the situation.
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Just calmly adopt an attitude of “I am here to help” and become an objective observer. Remind yourself that visions, sensations, and so on are not things that are happening to you, but more like memories that are being played out, but not your own memories. Just don’t identify with it. If you identify with it, that is to say you claim these experiences as your own this can be problematic.
You can do this with your own shadow work as well. As a matter of fact, this is the better place to start. To look within and deal with any possible dark spots, areas that you have over the years conditioned yourself to reflexively avoid because of the unpleasant sensations they evoke. Learn to sit calmly and observe these shadows as they bubble up to the surface, and most importantly, observe when they dissolve. It can be quite intense at times but with continued practice you will learn that none of these formations are permanent. They arise, and then they pass away, you have only to let go.
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Extreme fear is hard to overcome but as you get older, you might be less stressed out by it. I think your fear is actually based on something that happened to you in a past life. Don’t know what caused the fear, but it obviously was something pretty traumatic. Just my two cents worth!
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It’s because it’s the unknown. We all fear the unknown. I used to have that fear for a long time. Usually the universe will keep at it until you are able to drop your fear and accept it. You don’t have to force yourself to drop the fear, but if you do it will help you find yourself a lot faster and with a lot less anguish.
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Start slowly and work your way through. First time I saw spirit with my own eyes I shat myself.
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Did you have a bad experience as a kid so you gave your guides consent to block things out?
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Your feelings are valid.
What exactly are you afraid of, though?
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One way to awaken that gift inside you, is trying to use it. Since you feel intense fear when events happen, ask yourself why is that fear there? What is truly causing it? Is there a root? That answer, even if not 100% correct, which will lie behind your feelings, will help you to awaken that self within you. It’s a double sided spear so to speak. Face it, so you can face yourself.
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I truly appreciate all the responses. I’m trying to figure out why such fear with past events and such. I clearly need to work on this on my own. Will update as I move forward
