hey leos, aries and sags, this pisces needs your help

[junkie789]

EDIT 5/2 — i’m in tears with the support. :’)) you fire signs are wonderful. i’m going to be only fish that breathes fire underwater. i promise you all <33

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i literally have 0% fire in my chart. (i guess you can say i still have the houses, but still) i want to change this. how do i light that spark in myself? how can i be more daring, brave, bold, brash? more intensity and passion? what little things can i do everyday?

**how do i grow a jupiter, another mars and a second sun lol?** i want to light a fire so bright and hot that it burns my natal chart into another dimension 😀

Discussion

[UnderwaterKahn]

I have a fire heavy chart with almost no water. My main piece of advice is don’t let other people control your joy and happiness.

Oftentimes it’s a them problem, not a you problem. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t recognize when you’ve done something wrong, or apologize when you unintentionally hurt someone. But unhappy people will try to rob you of your joy. They will be passive aggressive, they will try to pull you down just because they aren’t happy with themselves. They will blame you for their unhappiness. Find a way to ignore them and surround yourself with diverse people.

Learn how to build a bridge and get over it. We are all wounded in our lives, we all have baggage. But if you spend your life dwelling on things you can’t change you will exhaust yourself. I have a handful of Pisces who are important in my life. None of them seem to be able to let anything go, ever. My brother still brings up a disagreement we had when he was 15 and I was 18. We are in our 40s. One of my good friends basically ended a friendship with another mutual friend over a text misunderstanding that happened 3 years ago. She is still devastated the other person won’t talk to her anymore, even though she’s the one that overreacted. Everyone in our friend group was over it a week after it happened. Life is too short to hang on to petty grievances. We’ve all had shitty friends, terrible breakups, etc. Hanging onto those things and judging others because of them keeps you from living life.

Learn how to set boundaries and say no. That’s more just generally good advice brought to you by my Capricorn placements.

[fjord_driven]

date a fire sign. you’ll learn da wae my fishy friend 😀

[Adorable_Decision826]

Aries sun, Leo moon and Sagittarius rising checking in… I’m a mess lol. I’m an adrenalin junkie and it’s gotten me in some messy situations lol. You just have to find something you’re passionate about and go for it full force. I’m really good at talking to people as well (even though I dislike a lot of people). To get over any fear though, you have to face it. It doesn’t matter what it is, talking to strangers, starting a new job, jumping out of a plane lol. Just face it.

[Yowhocares_]

BEFRIEND SOME FIRE SIGNS! Hands down the best way to do it. Each one has a different “kind of fire” that they bring to the table and its impossible not to join in when you see them just lighting life on fire. I’m a sag sun, and I genuinely enjoy helping my friends bring out more of their own fire, and I’ve read some other sags on here saying the same thing. It brings us life force.

[Ecstatic_Cold3068]


[FlameMoss]

Just in time for the eclipse of 5 may, Pisces 🙂 Are you gonna surf a certain flow?

Recipe suggestions:

Bring in Yellow, Orange & Red into your life, eat it, wear it & surround yourself by it.

Do more Yang activities, eat more yang (hot & salty & spicy) banish yin foods (cold & sweet).

Cut out everything & anybody that hasn’t been treating you right and or hasn’t been serving you. Better alone than dealing with crap.

Do not postpone anything (avoid stagnancy) don’t be overly concerned with others and your own feelings to the point of avoidance & unclarity, but get things done in a charming yet business way as fast as possible.

As a Pisces maybe adjust to the energy of these kind of vids. Play without sound, while you do other stuff

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HQxULRrna8&ab_channel=ETTAARLENE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HQxULRrna8&ab_channel=ETTAARLENE)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j0fOmhLTBA&ab_channel=ETTAARLENE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j0fOmhLTBA&ab_channel=ETTAARLENE)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7M6cch_Fh0&ab_channel=RestRelaxationReiki](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7M6cch_Fh0&ab_channel=RestRelaxationReiki)

Light up the root chakra, the sacral chakra, heart chakra, the solar plexus and the crown chakra:

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aO7oWy47QkM&ab_channel=BlendedInsight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aO7oWy47QkM&ab_channel=BlendedInsight)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HMfC33MvSp0&ab_channel=BlendedInsight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HMfC33MvSp0&ab_channel=BlendedInsight)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAjo1ZcuXR8&ab_channel=BlendedInsight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAjo1ZcuXR8&ab_channel=BlendedInsight)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzdBF0TkHUk&ab_channel=BlendedInsight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzdBF0TkHUk&ab_channel=BlendedInsight)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XrVrEshJ9H8&ab_channel=BlendedInsight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XrVrEshJ9H8&ab_channel=BlendedInsight)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEPXOs8KwYQ&ab_channel=BlendedInsight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEPXOs8KwYQ&ab_channel=BlendedInsight)

Can you let us know how it went?

[great_blue_panda]

Action! The way I think is usually “who is going to do this / be there for myself / if I was on the other side of this situation who would I want to help me?” The answer is me! So take action, start something, ignite the spark, no stagnation!

[cherry_lady3]

don’t mind me, just taking notes.

*thank you op :)*

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[Turbulent_Bar_13]

It’s really driven by caring strongly about something, whether it’s a hobby, obligation, or realizing that no one is going to advocate for you the way only you can.

[PatheticIdiot1]

Having no fire sign doesn‘t mean you have no intensity or passion. Water signs are extremely passionate.

[curdledoats]

Aries sun, Leo rising, Sagittarius moon here.

It sounds like you have a passion for being passionate already. It sounds like you have ambition and desire. I think that’s enough to get you to do anything. You’re on the right track (:

[borderlinegemini]

i have a lot of fire in my chart and only one water placement. my advice to you is just full send!!! full send everything. nervous about something not working out? full send! do it anyways. the worst that could happen is it won’t work out and you’ll move on to something better. scared of taking risks? full sendddd! just do the thing and you’ll be proud of yourself for doing so, even if it doesn’t work out the way you expected. someone pushing your boundaries? speak up for yourself because no one will ever have your back like you do. don’t be too in your head about what others might think of you – they’re too in their own heads about what others are thinking of them.

[croxaneb]

It depends on on which water sign you have the most of. If you have more Pisces than anything else; trying or relate to Leo energy will be the easiest or most “intuitive” out of the 3.

Water and Fire both deal with processing and projecting of emotive energy. Just like Earth and air deal with with processing and projecting of information.
Earth and Water “receive and process”; Air and Fire “project it back into the world”.

So you have a lot of water; but no fire. So you’re probably biased In receiving and processing emotive energy but not putting it back in the world.

Think of Aries and Scorpio for example.
Both ruled by Mars; those signs energies deal with anger; motivation; testosterone, adrenaline….
But Scorpio receives and processes it. You can “feel it”, within you. The sensation when you hear; for example; someone has backstabbed you and you just freeze; are immobile; but feel such strong emotional water anger. Maybe you are plotting of what you’ll do next? Maybe you’re thinking of who else helped that person? You’re ~processing~ everything. From the outside world to within.

Aries energy would be; hearing someone has backstabbed you and immediately walking to find that person to either slap them or yell at them. You’re not thinking. You mind is probably empty.
You just do. Like a spark. From within to outside world.

I could go on and on of specific examples but I think you get the point.

If you have lots of Pisces; relating to Leo might be easiest.
If you have lots of Cancer; then Sag would be more intuitive.

To relate to Leo; do things that make you proud.
A mantra “ I Will”.
Not “I dream”, “I wish”, “I hope” “oh wouldn’t be cool if …”
I will!
Think of what you want to do; feel it like a fire inside of you and then do it. Even easy things; just get in the habit of building passion and life force in your body .

Water is the soul; Fire is the sprit. Fire is much easier harnessed in the outside world. Don’t daydream; or stay in your head; or listen to your inner monologue. If you can; speak your inner thoughts out loud instead of keeping them inside. Take a risk. Anything to get your adrenaline going.

[junkie789]

obviously, i could easily just google “how to be brave, or more daring” blah blah. but i’d get generic responses. i want to get it from the source 🙂