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EDIT 5/2 — i’m in tears with the support. :’)) you fire signs are wonderful. i’m going to be only fish that breathes fire underwater. i promise you all <33
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i literally have 0% fire in my chart. (i guess you can say i still have the houses, but still) i want to change this. how do i light that spark in myself? how can i be more daring, brave, bold, brash? more intensity and passion? what little things can i do everyday?
**how do i grow a jupiter, another mars and a second sun lol?** i want to light a fire so bright and hot that it burns my natal chart into another dimension 😀
hey leos, aries and sags, this pisces needs your help
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Reply I have a fire heavy chart with almost no water. My main piece of advice is don’t let other people control your joy and happiness.
Oftentimes it’s a them problem, not a you problem. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t recognize when you’ve done something wrong, or apologize when you unintentionally hurt someone. But unhappy people will try to rob you of your joy. They will be passive aggressive, they will try to pull you down just because they aren’t happy with themselves. They will blame you for their unhappiness. Find a way to ignore them and surround yourself with diverse people.
Learn how to build a bridge and get over it. We are all wounded in our lives, we all have baggage. But if you spend your life dwelling on things you can’t change you will exhaust yourself. I have a handful of Pisces who are important in my life. None of them seem to be able to let anything go, ever. My brother still brings up a disagreement we had when he was 15 and I was 18. We are in our 40s. One of my good friends basically ended a friendship with another mutual friend over a text misunderstanding that happened 3 years ago. She is still devastated the other person won’t talk to her anymore, even though she’s the one that overreacted. Everyone in our friend group was over it a week after it happened. Life is too short to hang on to petty grievances. We’ve all had shitty friends, terrible breakups, etc. Hanging onto those things and judging others because of them keeps you from living life.
Learn how to set boundaries and say no. That’s more just generally good advice brought to you by my Capricorn placements.
I’m a Leo sun and moon and a Pisces rising so I get conflicted sometimes. For the most part I think I am balanced, but I can get super fiery and then the Pisces in me wants to die and regrets the things I said or did, lol!
Overall I would say to try to not care what people think of you. I promise they’re not even thinking of you! Most people really only focus on themselves so have fun and do what you want! It’s ok to say no to things and it’s ok to say yes to things. Stay true to yourself. Obviously be kind but live for you and stand up for yourself!
Definitely watch ‘Succession’. Go after what you want
Do you ever have a thought that you want to get done but it seems slightly weird to do? Just go “on the count of three I’m gonna do this. 1 2 f*** it!” When I wasn’t so out there, I’d use this little trick to get stuff done. Do you want to sing to your music on your walk home? 1, 2, it’s show time. Do you want to say hi to the cute guy next to you? 1, 2, hello! Having a countdown really helps my brain feel like I have no choice but do what I want. In no time, you won’t even question yourself and won’t need a countdown (at least for me!).
As for the other part of your question (intensity, passion), it’s a lot about putting stuff into perspective. I only have one life. You only have one life. You may as well live it to the fullest and give as much as you can. I’d rather give everything and fail, than be on my death bed with nothing to show for the life I’ve lived. The passion comes from knowing I have a limited amount of time.
Sign up for an adventurous activity! For eg a solo vacation or a skydiving/bunjee jumping activity :))
Let us know how it goes !Act first, think later
I can only speak for myself here. what I like to do to get that spark of inspiration is to steal cough medicine from walgreens, take about 17x the recommended dose and work on my vision board in a a peaceful environment like a park or something
edit: +listening to joyful music
Stop thinking so much. ❤️
My boyfriend is a triple pisces. He literally bought a book on how to stop overthinking.
But also I second everyone saying to befriend some fire signs. Fire spreads ❤️
Step 1. Grow a backbone and don’t back down from confrontation. Build your inner confidence. I have Aries in venus and sun. Plus scorpio stellium. So there’s lots of Mars in me.
Otherwise, get adopted by an Aries friend. They’ll defend you if they care/love you.
pisces are so cute!!! so i’m an scorpio sun libra moon leo rising. i can be insecure and attention seeking, ill be honest. but, i think it starts with being comfortable being odd and different. i’m not afraid to show ugly stuff about myself if that makes sense. i’m usually quite unassuming. i don’t assume bad things about people, tho i will fight when called upon.
ill say that in my experience, pisces tend to be the most open about their weaknesses (particularly the ladies). they don’t care about what people think and are totally ok with being quirky and “out there”.
you’re almost there! just be confident in who you are <3
What degree of cancer is your rising?
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I just consider how much regret I’ll have if I don’t try something when the opportunity presents itself.
Normally does the trick lol
Check out the house placements if they have fire read about the fire energy in that sign, immerse yourself in that energy, wear more reds or blends of that house colour, go out into nature, maybe an adventure that’s out of your comfort zone, start remodelling yourself into this new version of you, Listen to positive affirmations as well to compliment this amazing strong daring fiery new version of you.
Edit : also water being feminine and then fire being masculine, id say this is all energy work, merging your masculine and feminine sides together to balance it out! Working on self worth will raise the bar high for you as to what you allow into you life! Never doubt you
Aww, I’m an Aries married to a Pisces! And I have zero water (unless we count asteroids) so I can relate some. I’d look at it as: my passions might lye in fire, but your passions lye in waves. They’re not too dissimilar, it’s just how we go about it.
