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Discussion
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Hi all, this isn’t specifically about witchcraft, but it is about using my voice to put a tiny little dent in the patriarchy. I appreciate any advice you can offer!
I’m a cis woman in my 40s, definitely fat – if you look up Morit Summers, you’ll get an idea of my body type. I’ve been doing personal training for about a year now, with a really great instructor – he knows that I’m not interested in weight loss, and he genuinely wants me to excel in the body I have. He’s always telling me how strong I am, and how great I look. Obviously that’s part of what I’m paying him for, but also I do believe he means it!
On the other hand, today he posted on his business Instagram a picture of two of our politicians. One is a genuinely fat man, and the other is an average-sized woman who got caught at a bad angle. His caption was something to the effect of “obviously these two don’t care about fitness.”
I don’t doubt his sincerity or his commitment to me – I think he just didn’t make the connection between me and “those other” fat people, you know? So I’m trying to figure out the best way to give him some feedback about that post.
I tend to be on the wordy side, so my instinct is to write him an entire manifesto on Why Fat Shaming is Wrong Even When the Fat People Are Genuine Assholes. So I’m looking for wording that skips straight to the TL-DR version as well. 😉