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So I finally asked my wife after being together for 16 years that I believe she is a medium. She has mentioned to me about a few experiences she’s had, but once I told her what I think she is, she opened up to everything she feels.
She has seen a child in our home and heard him laugh. She’s seen an old man in our home. She tried to explain it to me what her experiences feel like, and I told her that her explanations are very similar to other mediums.
However, she is afraid of opening herself up to communication with spirits because we have 3 small children. She’s afraid that something bad will come through and stick around our house. How do I help, or explain to her that communication with the other side isn’t bad or scary? I know it’s her choice but I don’t want her to be afraid of her gift.
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I believe my wife is a medium and I don’t want her to be afraid.
updated 3 years, 2 months ago 1 Member · 5 Replies
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She is right in choosing to protect the children. It is a gift or an ability, yes. But, opening the home to spirit in general without taking measures to protect them, is not wise.
I did not choose to assist certain spirit inside my home for that reason. They can attach. Honestly, 9nly the spirits who have already crossed are safe. Unctossed souls have not healed. They have issues.
If my small children, who were also psychic had had to deal with some of the souls I volunteer to help these days, they would be in serious perpetual therapy., and they are strong
It is not easy. It is not fun. It can be wonderful, yes.
But as I sit here drained of energy, trying to recharge after dealing all night with crossing souls, and reflect on the two murdered ones, last night (one was an eight year old boy), and the Covid victims. I am glad I took measures to protect them.
Souls can wait. They can wait until your wife knows how to keep some of what she can see and sense away from them.
My children deserved to feel safe and unafraid. Your children deserve that, too.
It isn’t so much about being afraid of her gifts. It is about using them in a way which will not bring terrifying spirit in to frighten your children.
As the mother of adults, who are psychic, I can say I do not regret for one moment the measures I took to defend my own family
She can fully embrace her gifts. She. Is a mother, first, though. So I sit here, exhausted because I spent last night crossing a little boy who was stabbed alongside his father simply because he was homeless, and, he was black, and he was an easy target, in my country. I am glad that I did what I could, so that my children’s psychic experiences were not as terrifying. I took those souls on, myself.
She does not need to be afraid. But, like Lily Potter she needs to be allowed to choose to use the magic of love to keep them safe and innocent and happy. I did that. I can’t regret it. I never will.
There is always time for the dead The dead are always waiting for help. Let her be a mom while she can.
That is the most beautiful.gift. It is fleeting while they are little. Mediumship will always be there.
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If she is interested in enhancing her abilities there’s an excellent online course that helps people with this. You have to find the one that is for Mediums. If you need help I can pinpoint for you. Contact them first and ask if they have any coupons to get the course for a cheaper rate. There’s tests and a certificate exam at the end. Here is the link to the site:
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I am honestly new to this, but whatever she decides to do I think protecting your home would be a great first step. I’ve heard of people who placed protective stones in all the pilars of their homes and I know it has helped me a lot to always have mine in my pocket
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Even if she doesn’t want to do anything with her abilities for now, it’s always a good idea to learn the basics of grounding, centering, and shielding. Also cleansing herself and the home, as well as warding, and how to banish. So those are all protective things she can do, and it would be good for her to learn all those things and get good at them before she begins working with her abilities. You can google them.
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Care to provide details of her observations please. Its intriguing
