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    Mel_AndCholy
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    When I was 15, I had a feeling I wouldn’t have much more time with my dad and that I needed to make it count. I spent a lot of time with him, going to work with him after school and seminars. When I was 18, he got diagnosed with cancer and died a year after.
    A few years ago, I knew my mom was nearing her end despite her being healthy and lively. I knew that after her passing would come a lot of internal strife with my brother and I, so I moved out of state to create a safe distance.
    A year later, she died suddenly in a car crash.

    I’m a witch, now. I do divinations, but I never want to know someone’s end.
    I just charged my stones during this waxing moon phase and as I was doing Christmas cards, I just got the sense that one of my aunt’s will pass soon. I suppose it’s the timing of the charging of my tools and that I was still psychically open (by my mistake). It was an accident and it saddens me deeply.

    I’d like to be wrong, but I unfortunately have a good track record.

    I guess I just want to vent.

  • I don’t like knowing when family doesn’t have a lot of time left

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  • CaimansWrath

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    That truly does suck, especially since I assume your family does not understand or accept it. To put a bit of a positive spin on it, you have the chance to prepare yourself for their passing as well as fulfill any regrets before they die. In a way it really is a gift compared to those those that lose their loved ones suddenly. Much love and best of luck on your journey

  • RicottaPuffs

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    I tend to use it as a sign I need to get ready for that person to cross. Use it as an esrly.warning system.

    I did that for my parents. I told them or my husband. That way, I could be ready to go to help.my loved.ones in grief, by being there for them, as a family.member, not as a psychic.

    See it as a way to be helpful.

  • Rufio_Rufio7

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    I’m so sorry you have to deal with that. I have a relative who knows about a week prior because of a specific dream they have, every time. I can’t imagine what that’s like and I definitely don’t envy it.

  • fragment75

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    Im curious to see your astrolog chart.

  • SnooDucks4472

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    I’m sorry for the strife your abilities are causing you. I have heard of some people who swear by ancestor work as a way get right with those who are gone but no matter what I hope you are able to find some solace.

  • Mental_Basil

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    I once got the overwhelmingly strong feeling that my grandma was going to pass soon. I even called to talk to her. She and I aren’t close, as she was constantly mean to me as I was growing up.

    But. It was actually my granny that passed soon after. My granny… My granny was one of the best people I’ve ever known. She was so kind and giving and amazing. She loved me fiercely, and I her. Granny was my safe space.

    In fact, once when my grandma had spent 3 hours yelling in my face about what a stupid, horrible 16 yr old I was (I wasn’t), the first person I called when she finally allowed me to have a phone was my granny.

    Point is, Granny = amazing person who I loved more than anything. Grandma = cold hearted bitch who has chilled a bit in her old age and I now feel “meh” towards.

    Granny = Almost collapse to the floor from my sobs and grief.
    Grandma (when she passes) = I’ll probably only shed a tear for my family that will miss her.

    Getting those two mixed up made me question everything about my intuition. I have no idea how it was possible to misunderstand that.

    It’s the only time I’ve had an accurate premonition about a death, but it was for the wrong person.

    Anyway, I say all that to say… We can energetically nudge our loved ones. There can be multiple potential death dates, and sometimes we can help them avoid one. So perhaps if you send your aunt loving, healthy energy, maybe it’ll help your premonition be wrong.

    I could feel and outright see how much influence I had over my granny’s life. It was intimidating. I was one of her strongest anchors to this plane. And for a while, I fought to keep her here. But… She was ready to go. I could sense it in her. She was sad to leave me and the others she loved, but she was excited for the next adventure.

    This is probably longer than it should be. She just passed a few months ago, so it’s still a raw wound.

    I hope your aunt has many more happy years ahead of her. 🙂

  • [deleted]

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    That is so freaking weird. I had a feeling that my dad was going to pass when I was 15 and he ended up being diagnosed when I was 21 and passed a year later. Crazy coincidence.

  • cupcakeartist

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    I got a premonition about my father – both before his diagnosis and then before his death. It was terrible. I can empathize with how emotional it can be. That said, I wonder if there might be a way of refraining to for yourself. When I found out my dad was terminal we still had a month together before he passed. It was terrible not knowing what day death would come but I kept telling myself that I wanted to refrain each day as a chance to spend time with him. It could be that with this knowledge you get to make the most of the time you do have left of that person.

  • Die369Undistracted

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    December 10, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    Time is an illusion

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