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My best friend recently died and I’d like to see a medium to connect with them again. However I know my friend was religious and didn’t believe in mediums or that they would be able to communicate after death. I’m concerned that trying to contact them in this way would be disrespectful. Is this a concern you’ve ever encountered and what are your thoughts about this? TIA
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I want to be respectful
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Usually the departed stay close to their relatives and friends for the first year after they die. I have had people spontaneously contact me after they died. (I am telepathic) while other people that I felt really close to, only contacted me once after they died and were mostly quiet. I do not know why you would consider contacting your BF as a sign of disrespect. They are not really dead at all; they just transitioned to a different plane of existence. Their bodies may be gone, but their soul lasts forever and they most likely would want to say something to you. You might find it enlightening to find out how they are doing at the moment. Once the human race ascends it will all be so much easier to understand.
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The souls of that person has a broader understanding and perception now that they have crossed over and are in their soul state. Being in that state means souls have access to more information then they did in their human state. More so, the reading would be for you and you have the right to do what feels right to you. I have done readings for souls that were devoutly religious and they came through with such profound information because of the levels of understanding they reach by being in that Elevated consciousness
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I generally find people are not especially cranky on the other side, as they have a much greater perspective and on the whole tend to be pretty chill. I have definitely sometimes gotten a sense of “ha ha, you got me, I was wrong after all” when that’s the kind of dynamic those people would have had with each other.
I don’t really find that those who have passed are terribly caught up in our ideas of “respect” about tiny things like that. If your friend was right and there’s nothing after they’re gone (or nothing for them, or they just aren’t on a communicative plane which I do believe happens with some people or maybe all people eventually), they’re not going to know you attempted it. If they now know they’re wrong about all that they’re unlikely to be offended that you tried.
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I’ve only encountered one spirit who didn’t want to talk, and he was a suicide. Like others have said, but experiencing death tends to change people’s minds about a lot of things.
But just in case you’ve engaged a medium’s services and it turns out your friend doesn’t want to talk, what would you do instead? Are there other people you’d like to reach out to?
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I think that you considering your friend’s beliefs even after death is noble. I think now that they have passed over they are aware that mediums do exist and all the earthly doubts they had are melted away. Be careful as it is difficult to find ethical mediums/psychics.
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Hi there! I have had some experiences as a medium with people expressing their religiousness and feelings about mediumship. I think what is important to understand is why people believe what they do on the ‘earth plane’ and then how things change after ‘physical’ life. I really liked your question and wanted to bring it to my vlog that’s about people exploring their psychic/mediumship/intuitive side. Check out my video response for your question: [https://youtu.be/QnyY-hrcksg](https://youtu.be/QnyY-hrcksg). Thank you for the inspiration and I hope you do connect with your friend, on your own with assistance from a medium.
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I´m sorry for your loss. Leave your friend alone for now, they need to adjust to their new being 1st. You can deal with your grief on a practical level for now, counseling if needed.
