I want to put a spell on my ex and need some advice

[BunnyLovesApples]

To give you some context:
Me and my ex have been in a relationship for about five years where he emotionally and sexually abused me. We have been split for over a year and my life is very good so far.
But every now and then I hear about another woman that he got his dirty hands on and I don’t want anybody else to be hurt. I can’t do anything about it since I myself know how hard it is to realize what is happening and that the person you hoped to be kind and supporting just isn’t.

I heard about reflection spells and binding spells but most of these include pictures or items of them which I don’t own.

I have no intention of getting back at him, I just want to maybe help others to realize who he really is.

Discussion

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[ElenaSuccubus420]

You don’t need to have a picture or something that belongs to him you can always use the picture in your minds eye and while you’re doing the spell you can just think about how you don’t want him to cause pain to another person while picturing the pain he caused you to ensure that doesn’t happen to another person. Obviously you don’t have to go through with the picturing the pain that you went through and you can only do the mines I part please don’t do anything that can be triggering at all I would never want you to be triggered into a bad state!
But intention is truly key with magic so even if you don’t have a picture you should be fine

[SethArkon]

Binding mechanics if you ask me is exactly the opposite of what is needed here. Binding or any sort of similar spells means still getting involve in some way and therefore will not be focused enough. Or make it clear, vengeance as a deliberate intention is potent

[Alternative-Section1]

freezing spell ?

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[if u don’t know how to u write the name and put it in the deepest part of your freezer. correct me if wrong]

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[Namelessdracon]

You can do a binding spell using anything really. You could make a little doll representation of him. You could tie knots in a cord that would represent him. The power of witchcraft is as much about intent as it is about the tools.

[SuperbMedia619]

I’ve seen using a bay leaf before with the person name or like birth date and I heard if you ask a person to have their name and if they say yes and say their name.. in a sense they actually give it you and you have power over them

[natsumi76]

Do they have any social media? If so you could take a picture from there and print it out. It might take some sleuthing if they were fairly private but there’s at least 1 pic of everyone out there lol. Or as someone else stated, use something to represent him instead.

[Ok_Candy_9562]

I don’t have any experience in the spells that you’re asking about but I just wanted to say your story is exactly the same as mine (literally down to time periods and everything (so spooky!)) I’m so sorry you had to go through that and if you need someone to talk to or vent to I’m here for you

[dovzinia]

The simple thing I’ve done and used it literally putting it into the earth. Dig a small dirt hole, write whatever you like and intentions, place in dirt hole and cover it up. You can do this method with river/ocean water, releasing it, and or fire method safely lighting up the paper. I don’t believe in letting it go into the air, unless you can find a safe method to let it go above.

[ariyava]

Hmm I’m not a traditional witch by any means but I feel like if you surround him with mirrors this might be effective

[kai-ote]

“reflection spells and binding spells”.

Reflections send back at them what they send at you. Is that the case here? Bindings do just that. Bind him to something. What? What would you bind him too?

Spotlight spell to focus attention on him, with eyebright to help others see his true nature. Freezer spell of the more potent variety as described here to make his abilities to perform, well, not so good. [https://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html](https://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html)

Last to mention, but maybe the first you should perform, healing for yourself. I wish you well. BB.

[Forhasta]

Normally me and my coven recommend against casting like this, but I might be able to come up with something for you.

[Valleezboy]

Personally I’d put him in a freezer spell – write his name on some paper, put it in a container, fill with water and pop it in the freezer. That’s the basics anyway – Google will be your friend on this one lol