Is asking for advice on how to possibly detect and lift a curse or severe negative energy on my family be acceptable?

[mark]

I just really would like to make sure this is ok to ask advice on. I’ve always been very interested in being a witch and even started practicing when I was a teenager. Life kind of got in the way at that time and my whole life was turned upside down.
Anyway, I met my now husband about 7 years ago. I’ve always had bad luck/ no luck, but this man is pretty much the walking definition of Murphys law. Since we are married that extends to me. We’ve had so many bad things happen to us. So many instances of things going wrong that even experts in their fields have never seen happen before. I’ve really started to think that there’s a curse or a cloud of negative energy attached to my husband and I. I’m at a loss for what to do. I don’t know how to fix it, and I also don’t know how much more stress I can take. I’d really love some advice on how to truly verify my suspicion on this and fix it.

Discussion

[wateralchemist]

Sometimes I think people who are a little sensitive get the worst of it- squish just like grape to make a Karate Kid reference. By all means, study, meditate, take control!

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Sometimes bad karma from our family and our past lives that has not been neutralize can accumulate and manifest as a family curse or bad luck. I’m not saying that’s what it is, but it’s something worth looking into.

[Livid_Accountant8965]

Anyone please feel free to correct me or add to what I’m saying. Definitely do some research and maybe starting burning some black candles to help banish this negativity and white candles to cleanse your space to start. Find an evil eye charm and keep it on your person too.

[returnhomeagain]

Hello there. May I ask what sort of cleaning/protection work have you tried to put in place? I am pretty new to this all (I have a bit more experience in spiritism rather than magick) but since I dont always have the skills to discover/undo curses etc, I work really hard on regular cleansing (I do put a lot of herbs in my house haha), burning sage/rosemary etc, burning incense, asking for assistance of my guides, herbal cleansing bath.

I have a natural circle of rosemary and rue above the main door which I change regularly. Sometimes I would place salt in the four corners of the house when things get heave and so on.

I know that many work with crystals (not something I have experience yet) for protection also.

Last but not least, the state of your mind will also attract or repel possible negative energy. We are tought here (in the spiritism) that the best protection is your own mind/intention. Manifesting what is in your mind (like visualizing negative energy being withdrawn from your home through window for example).

Someone with more experience could help you with spell suggestions to return any negative energy to its origins etc.

Sorry if its not much of a help.

[NobleFern723]

The horrible things just keep happening. I’ve been really working on positive energy but I think the negative is far outweighing the good. I have no idea what to do. What candles could I buy? Herbs? I’m willing to try anything at this point. You guys have been so great and supportive with good insights and the more advice I can get, the better. I’m sorry if I’m being a bother. I just am super super new to all this.