Is it possible for your entire family to be cursed?

[DinoPower012001]

I really don’t know where to start. But there hasn’t been any successful marriages in my family. Every aunt is divorced and has been cheated on, and the ones that are married they’ve been cheated on but for some reason they’re still in the relationship. I’m not judging.. I myself have been cheated on, but I started to think is my family cursed or something? My grandma use to be an actual Witch, she had a lot of resentment because my grandpa left her for someone else and she would hope that one of her spells could get him where he would be miserable and alone.. he actually is living his best life, she died a long time ago with anger but he didn’t.
Anyways I was just wondering if my entire family could be cursed, if that’s even possible.. maybe my witchy Reddit folk could answer this or is everyone’s family also like this and maybe I just only notice mine.

Discussion

[DiamondOracle194]

It might not be a curse. What I’m seeing in your brief description is what I would describe as programming or family patterns.

You witness the females in your family have relationships and how they are treated. You accept that as ‘normal’ on an unconscious level and follow those guidelines you picked up about what makes a good partner (yes, they cheated, but that’s what happens in relationships and is normal, … right?) and find yourself attracted to that.

>My grandma use to be an actual Witch, she had a lot of resentment because my grandpa left her for someone else and she would hope that one of her spells could get him where he would be miserable and alone..

Oy vey. So the major trouble with this is: it is extremely difficult to curse someone effectively. The core aspects of a spell involves the caster becoming the person they are casting the spell on and feeling/receiving all the energy being sent out (regardless of intent to heal or hurt). When we curse we don’t want to absorb the energy ourselves, so we also have to block our own energy from absorbing what we sent out. It’s majorly complicated and where the 3×3 rule comes when we spell cast.

>he actually is living his best life, she died a long time ago with anger but he didn’t.

From this I’m guessing she failed to protect herself properly. Like I said, it’s complicated to curse someone effectively so no judgment or ‘you made your bed lie in it’ feelings.

So, to start the removal process:

Analyze what you’ve witnessed in the relationships around you. What commonly accepted behaviors in partners are really red flags and should be avoided as potential dating material. Expose yourself to relationships that last and find what you want to emulate in how you want to be treated. Look into yourself and what you’ve absorbed about your worth and how men will treat you and get rid of that shit. Find your happy balance and keep growing/going until you get to a point that you can believe that loyalty is the norm (you do not have to stop dating while you do this. Sometimes we only learn what needs to be worked on by exposing ourselves to the situation, but give yourself some time to reflect before you head into the next situation.)

For grandma: work with her spirit to help remove the anger and show her what your learning too. If this stems from her like your post suggests, helping her heal will help remove the energy from your lineage and allow better relationships down the line.

Feel free to get help from other sources, a medium would be a good choice to work with grandma.

[Alaskan_Tsar]

You should do some digging and see how far back this pattern of cheating goes, and more importantly where its starts from.

[SewWitchie]

Yes, my Great Grandmother cursed all of the women of her decendants. She was a mean bitter woman and she never had a nice thing to say.