looking for help/support as a new medium

[Nicolina]

hi new medium here. it was intense last night. any tips or suggestions on how to have better control over this gift? Trying to learn to set some good boundaries cus sleep is important to me

Discussion

[RicottaPuffs]

Tell spirit what the boundaries are. Reinforce the boundaries, by refusing to interact with spirit that does not respect them. Set up shields while you sleep and ask higher spirits to guard the perimeters. Set up wards.

One medium here asks angels to set up a wall of themselves all around her bed.

I have wards set up in my home where only trusted spirit may enter. Those wards, boundaries…work. do not allow any old spirit in your house, Set up a perimeter and actually ask them to wait for you to interact. Set appointments with spirit. If you miss one, they will remind you.

[throatchakra]

I recommend checking out the spiritualist church journeywithin. Their classes are really affordable and great for beginners.

As for boundaries, I generally set an intention before reading and then after a closing mediation thanking the spirits and asking my guides to clear the room. Generally, I use a chakra opening / closing meditation, Sitting the Power, and asking Archangel Michael to clear the space. Hope you get some sleep!

[MamaSmAsh5]

Good suggestions here. I also love crystals. 1, they’re pretty and 2, they can be pretty powerful and helpful.

[TheSaltyTarot]

It gets easier with practice, but this is still *work*, and very hard work sometimes. You kind of have to account for that when you arrange your life.