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Pluto/Venus
updated 2 years, 10 months ago 1 Member · 4 Replies
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I’m a male with the opposition and people are obsessed with me for better or for worse, rarely in between. This sounds good but trust me when it’s bad it’s baaaad. I imagine the square would be less flip floppy and a little more low key.
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The grace of your love becomes a depth of mystery. (Male or female). If more information you need then more we need about their placements.
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First, it can make him take love very seriously & love be an all-consuming thing for him. In one sense it makes him associate intensity with love, so he wants a love that is like a dire, ever-needing thing. Where both people are 100% all about each other & the love is extremely passionate. However Pluto is extremes so he can see relationships in extremes. It can create black or white thinking in relationships. For example, my significant other didn’t text me back, she is not in love with me and this relationship is over. Or my girlfriend said happy birthday to another man, she is not faithful. They take loyalty very seriously and can have extreme trust issues with women and in relationships in general. They can either be so distrustful that they are completely closed off from love in general, and spend their time projecting their general distrust of women in general by being players, entertaining multiple people, playing games, never settling down etc. very much with the “hurt them before they hurt me” mindset. Or they can be the type to get into a relationship and take it veryyy seriously. Expecting the other’s complete and 100% devotion, transparency & loyalty. They can be that overbearing partner, who is suspicious, jealous & controlling. Deep down they are going to have instilled sense of feeling like women cannot be trusted, usually because of something he witnessed with a feminine figure, such as a mom, sister, aunt or grandmother etc. early on. (Look at the moon sign, house & aspect to get a better picture.) but either way these trust issues usually play out in one of these two big ways. And there’s usually some themes of either him attracting partners or people who become obsessed with him, or he attracts people who he becomes obsessed with. As I said Pluto is extreme so this aspect can manifest as love & relationships turning into very extreme situations. For example, love-hate relationships, extreme jealousy, lots of power plays, obsessive/jealous behavior, at the most severe form this can literally be the “love that you’re willing to die for.” They essentially literally want to feel like their partners are so much about them that they will die for them. They also want to know every single thing about their partners and expect full vulnerability & transparency. And while they expect all this from their partner, they’re usually only willing to show & give a fraction of what you give back. Its very much about power & control. A lot of times if you’re in a relationship with someone who has this, there’s a certain amount of “submitting” you have to do for it to work. And I think I already said this but loyalty is everything for them. They do not play about lying, cheating, being sneaky etc. if you lie/cheat etc. they WILL find out. They already have predisposed sensors and suspicion about being lied to or betrayed, so they’re always on guard for that kind of stuff. Even if you’re not lying or being sneaky you will most likely be accused of it at least. Jealousy is actually a form of love and showing you care to them. However as I said if you do any sneaking/lying/cheating they will they find out, and they will not let you know that they found out. They will make you think everything is okay, or if they do let you know they found out, they will make you think they forgive you, but they never do. They are very vengeful so Either way they will find a way to hurt you back and hurt you back 10x deeper before ending it. They will literally want you to feel the pain that they felt. So seriously, if you fuck them over badly just forget about it because it wont end well. But they do tend to love relationships with that element of drama, fighting, etc. They can associate love with danger and crisis so those things can be common in their relationships and they can attract extremely tumultuous, extreme relationships/partners. Its definitely a rollercoaster ride being in a relationship with them. It can be both thrilling & give you an adrenaline rush, or it can be terrifying and make you sick. And you either get in line to go on again or you become traumatized and never go on another ride for the rest of your life. And opt for something safer & more stable, like the tilt-a-whirl or the swings.
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I have this aspect too (male), as well as jupiter and mars squaring pluto.
I think the Venus/Pluto aspects can make someone be controlling in love relationships. It can provide a lot of passion in love, and passion for “things” or “hobbies” you love too.
