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So for my birthday, May 25th, my mom got me a certificate for a medium because I’ve had some deaths in the family. 5 days after my birthday, the love of my life, suddenly, passed away. I felt that was very ironic that I received a certificate to see a medium. So within the next few days I made the appointment for a few days after that. Our souls are connected & he visited me in my dreams just two days after he passed, hugging me for comfort. Anyways, I feel like I was in a very emotional state and looking back at it I think I went to a medium too early. He came through for me very easily, but I still feel bad for possibly disrupting his transition to the other side. I want to see another psychic but I don’t think it’s healthy to seek that because I miss him. I feel him with me everyday & the signs I get from him are like nothing I’ve ever received, I know he hears me I just want to be able to hear him. Anyways, was it too soon to see a psychic?
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Seeking a medium.
updated 2 years, 6 months ago
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I suppose it was early and might have been more useful had you waited, but thats not something you can change now. It seems to me that your concern is more with finding out if he’s okay on the other side and whether its “safe” to try and connect with him again.
When you say you can feel him with you, are they positive feelings and signs you are getting? Do you sense peace and well being, or are the visitations disruptive and fraught?
If its the former, which it seems to be reading between the lines of your post, I think you can be confident that he’s doing okay. And if that is the case, then I don’t see any reason to fear trying to reconnect.
Do you have a meditation practice? You may be more capable of hearing from him than you realize. Its a process, to develop your ability to open up and receive, but based on what you’ve said I suspect it wouldn’t be too far off for you.
I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with all this loss. I hope your mental health is holding up and that you feel supported to get whatever type of help you need <3
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Speaking from experience (unfortunately) – If you choose to see another medium – I’d wait about 6 months. Use that time to grieve and to get adjusted to living life without your partner. Your healing not only benefits you- but it allows your loved one to cross over because they will continue to linger and be “stuck in limbo” until they know that you are OK, and that’s not fair to them. Also- when choosing another medium- pick the one that speaks or sticks out to you, even if they don’t have many reviews.
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Reaching out to a spirit doesn’t hurt them as long the medium is gentle about it. Doesn’t matter how recent their death was. When we advise people to wait before getting a reading, that’s mostly for their benefit — the living need time to bury their dead, mourn a little, and regain some reasoning ability.
I’m sure he was glad to see you. And I’m sure it helped him. 🙂
