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Hello! I am not familiar with sex magic or magic in general. I have a quick general question about it.. I was speaking to someone I’m sexually active with and this person mentioned that they’ve been researching how to connect with me on a deeper level during sex. He wants to connect with me during sex so much that I won’t ever forget him. He was very serious about how he wants me to feel him inside of me on a spiritual level.
Now, usually I would think this falls under kamasutra, but it kinda seems a little more than that. Another thing I wanted to mention is he has one of my bras & stole two of my sweaters. I have no idea if that has anything to do with it, but my intuition is giving me caution vibes. I’ve asked for my stuff back, but he won’t budge. He has books on Earth magic, spirituality, crystals, healing, white magic, etc. I’m into the same shit except the magic. Also, not too knowledgeable with Crystals.
As far as I know, he doesn’t really read too much into magic, but he could be lying to me..
Should I be worried that he may be trying to put a spell on me? Possibly try to make me obsessed with him using sex magic? Is that even possible?
My apologies if I sound naive, I don’t know much anything about magic or spells. I would really appreciate any advice. (:
Edit: I also wanted to mention, he keeps a picture of me in his wallet with a strand of my hair. Don’t know if that means anything.
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Sex magic?
updated 2 years, 11 months ago 1 Member · 10 Replies
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Oooooooo……. This sounds REALLY toxic and manipulative. I would consider this a huge red flag. He’s not thinking about what’s best for you all… he’s just being obsessive and thinking about what he wants.
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You’ve said a lot about what he wants, and nothing about what you want. Do you want what he wants? If not, what he wants is irrelevant. Magic isn’t really relevant here either.
Don’t fuck anybody who steals shit from you, either. Listen to your intuition when it tells you to be cautious.
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Do you want somebody to have sex with you for their magical purposes? For mutual and agreed on magical purposes? Or just for other, not-magical purposes?
There is such a thing as sex-positive witchcraft that treats sex magic as ethical and intentional and mutual and consensual. But it does take some not-magical effort about relationships. Even so, relationships can go awry and sex magical ties become furballs.
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I just want to say, please be careful if you cut them off! Already they seem obsessive, so keep protection on you at all times especially if they get crazy if/when you mention killing the relationship. Hope it all plays out well love!
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That is really dangerous and I’m getting horrible vibes! Definitely get outta there girl… He’s trying to force pieces of you into him by taking your physical dna (hair and such) and that’s not a good thing at all. I’ve had a dude do something a little similar to me before and it’s nothing good.
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Sex is one way to raise power, so yes, it can be used for a spell. Can he control you with it? Probably not, particularly because you are aware of it. In general, magic doesn’t make big changes, it just “nudges” the universe to raise the odds of what we want.
We generally do ‘mundane’ work to achieve those goals as well.
(Many, but not all, of us don’t do specific spells to control people, at least those we care about, or at least are VERY careful if we do.) But regardless of the spell, if he’s giving you bad vibes, and taking your things, and trying to control you, that is a whole bunch of red flags. -
That’s not really what sex magic is IME. It’s more a way to cast and gather power.
Still maybe stay far the fuck away from this person if you are getting caution vibes, and give yourself some protective spell care. Did he ask for your hair?
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Sex Magick is using sex to cast spells essentially. Seduction Magick is something else entirely
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do some research on tantra. margot anand was the author i read. her books explain clearly what it is. but just as an aside, some guys try to use this sex magic line to get an advantage or leverage in a relationship. some women are more vulnerable to manipulations about things they find intimidating. not saying this is your situation, just…. when a guy brings stuff like this up, it makes me question the motivation and intent.
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He’s stealing from you and you’re only getting caution vibes? That should be STOP AND BACK THE HELL AWAY vibes.
Sex magic is great. Sex magic with a person who is stealing from you is a big old nope. You need TRUST for that to be a good experience. You can’t trust this person.
