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As the title says. I am struggling right now with a lot of anger, anxiety, and sadness over an abusive manipulative sociopathic ex, who happens to unfortunately be the father of my daughter, and will, for as long as he lives, be somehow in my life. I hate him with all of my being, for sexual abuse, rape, stalking, gaslighting, emotional abuse, and for continuing to take advantage of me because he feels entitled to spend time with my daughter. I have bent over backwards for him to be in her life, because I do think fathers deserve to be in their kids lives if they really want to be, but only if they are going to be a good influence, and unfortunately for my daughter, he has been in and out of jail since she was born. We are going back to court after a couple years of relatively calm waters, and I am SO ANGRY at him for making my life harder than it already is. I want to burn all of the emails and text messages hes sent me in the past week and scream at the top of my lungs.
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Share your rituals, hexes, banishing spells for ridding yourself of toxic men and/or letting go of anger (TW abuse)
updated 2 years, 10 months ago
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If he is in and out of jail, it shouldnt be too hard for you to get full custody.
Then, when hes out of the picture, a gun makes an excellent banishment spell.
Also, keep every message and contact from him as records of his bullshittery, it sucks to have to look at them, but a written record of his bs can bury him in court.
EDIT: If you get a gun, make sure you get some training at a shooting range as well.
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Depending on your country/region it might be worth getting a restraining order/non molestation order so that the police have more powers to do something, even if his actions in themselves don’t add up to a full crime. (If you’re in the UK, I’m happy to talk to you about the laws here.)
I’d also consider looking into adoption rules, see if there’s a way to make him relinquish any parental rights he has legally.
In terms of spells, I’ve used this ritual a couple of times against my emotionally manipulative dad. Even just getting in the headspace of banishing his influence over me makes me feel better:
https://tipofthemoon.store/spells/protection-spell(Edit to fix mobile formatting.)
