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Should I start to talk to my crush in terms of dating them?
updated 3 years, 2 months ago 1 Member · 9 Replies
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I am using the Chrysalis Tarot deck by Holly Sierra and Toney Brooks. The question I am asking is “Should I start talking to my crush in terms of potentially dating them?” I am using a 3 card spread. The spirals are representing Wands.
3 of wands: I see this card as me exploring my options, and my crush is one of them.
10 of Wands Reversed: I am dealing with a large load of responsibilities as of right now, but I still might be able to find the time for dating.
Knight of Wands: I feel this card represents him. It seems like there could be a little something that happens between us, and I definitely think there is potential.
I am still fairly new to Tarot so any insight on what you may think would help. Thanks
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I haven’t seen it mentioned, but really consider how heavy the influence of spirals. You drew 3 in a row. Thinks what this means for your situations and interests. The fact they also move up in order meaning progression or movement through the spirals.
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Yes!
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You should talk to your crush but don’t decide on the exact nature of the relationship until you get what’s on your heart out your mouth.. that knight is a fighter but wouldn’t have to be if you allow yourself to SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY !!! Hope this helps
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I’m feeling like there are some present burdens you need to work through. You may have a lot of responsibilities yes, but reversed to me indicates that these may be crushing. Get in your own head, write down any thoughts, talk to yourself and deal with these. The outcome looks bright and adventurous though. I’d say go for the crush, just don’t leave everything on the back burner.
I definitely have a love/hate relationship with the ten of wands.
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I’m feeling that you played it safe in the past, and currently are unsure where to go in the moment. Figure out your priorities, then move forwards with clear conviction! The knight of spirals calls you to cut through your loops and chart forth the waters unknown with the bravery of the weathered captain! Listen to the signs that are coming your way, ignoring your intuition won’t serve you.
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I see a man who is not interested in a commitment. I don’t think you have really stood out to him. I think it’s best for you to assess what you want in a relationship with him. Is this a casual dating situation? Are you going to be tore up if he really doesn’t care for something long term? Relationships are hard work. He appears to be more thrill seeking than anything. There would be nothing wrong asking for a date (seriously dudes like getting attention too). But don’t anticipate it blossoming into anything much more tho.
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Gorgeous deck!
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You asked if you should follow a passion and pulled nothing but wands, why are you even asking us go do it right now
