SO, in terms of venus signs, who do you think are the runner and the chasers in a connection?

[lonelysof]

SO, in terms of venus signs, who do you think are the runner and the chasers in a connection?

Discussion

[HappyCabbage9013]

Air Venus signs want to be chased, they might chase those they find intellectually stimulating or intriguing, but they enjoy the attention of being chased.

fire signs are chasers, it just manifests in different ways. Aries it’s the challenge, Sag it’s the experience and adventure of pursuit, Leo will chase those they feel are unique and shine brightly, but they also love feeling adored so of the fire signs they would be the most likely to be chased.

Earth are selective chasers, they only pursue/chase those they feel meet their criteria in a partner and decide are worth their time. They are often pursued by others who are attracted to their stability. This can be good for them in that it makes them consider people who can get them out of their comfort zone.

Water signs are all about emotions and are mixed. Pisces can fixate and romanticize people, which makes them chase hard, but when faced with the reality of the person instead of the idea, will stop chasing. If they are chased, but uninterested in the chaser, and the chaser moves on, that will often instigate the Pisces to then pursue. Cancers have to feel they can emotionally trust you before pursuing, but are often chased. Scorpios are often chasers because being ruled by mars they do want the challenge, but will most likely have to be chased to get close to them emotionally.

[serialphile]

Just here to say that moon sign has a lot to do with the runner chaser dynamic. My Venus and mars are both in Aries and I go from chaser to runner in a heartbeat if I feel hurt or too vulnerable. My moon is Virgo.

[SituationSad_]

as a pisces venus i’m delusional

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[avatar_fan1124]

Capricorns are chasers who try getting people to chase them.

[LightningMcScallion]

This is just based on my generalized impression of the signs (don’t come for me). But here’s what I got:

Aries venus: Chasers.

Taurus venus: Neither. Doesn’t really enjoy making the first move but is willing to. Will reciprocate if they like back the person who initiates.

Gemini venus: I’m Forrest fucking Gump 🤣🫠💀

Cancer: ‘Runners’. But if someone meets their standards/type they have the hots for, they fall into that person’s lap.

Leo: Good at either. Does a lot of chasing. But gets some satisfaction from being wanted, and they’re very impressed by someone who can chase them successfully and charm them.

Virgo: Neither. Hear me out. Virgo venuses just seems stiff. They don’t get the chasing running dynamic. They just have their standards for a partner, these aren’t ridiculous by any means. But people who live up to them are rare nonetheless. They struggle in dating (and probably forming friendships, at least to an extent). But once they find their people they do very well since they’re devoted and super practical/helpful.

Libra venus: They’ll do both but honestly I see them as runners in the end. They have high-ish standards as well.

Scorpio: They can feel like runners sometimes but def. chasers.

Sagittarius: Runners!

Capricorn venus: Neither. What you see is what you get.

Aquarius: I’m sorry but as far as I can see: Wall builders.

Pisces venus: Idk how to describe. Chasers? But indirect?

[Zealousideal_Long253]

Capricorn Venus here. I hate to be chased. It’s a major turn-off for me.

[AnastasiaApple]

Aries Venus wants to chase forever if possible, which leads to us being attracted to sometimes toxic situations

[i_do_the_kokomo]

Sagittarius Venus here. We’re the chaser until suddenly we’re the runners, but only once we have the attention of the person we’re interested in 💀 I know, it doesn’t really make sense

[Usual-Thought-8691]

This is truly my own opinion

For water Venus I think they tend to lean more towards the chaser side, especially if they are truly
attached to the person and see potential/ a future with them

Earth Venus could be either or depending on the person and the context, not just emotional/attraction wise but how much they value the person, where they personally are in life, how much capacity they have for delusion

Air Venus inherently gives runner vibe but i do see Aqua chasing after someone they deem valuable or unique enough

Fire Venus naturally give chaser to me, almost obsessed even once they’ve set their eyes on someone

[loves_spain]

Aquarius venus. I don’t chase and don’t run. I want to be friends first and foremost and only from there, build something greater. That’s how I met my husband!

[Happy5traveller]

I love to fixate on someone, daydream about someone,but not to chase. I love to romanticize people and in most cases I don’t like when a person being romanticized makes a move and ruins that fantasy I was enjoying. 🤣
Also, when it comes to a serious desire for someone I truly know I want to be chased.
I’m Pisces with Aquarius Venus.

[siobhanmairii__]

Leo Venus here. Love to be chased and admired 🥰

[yuckymonis]

scorpio sun/moon and sag. i feel like i am always at such polarized odds w these placements and relationships. on one end i crave obsession and devotion and on the other i tend to be flighty, easily turned off and need my independence. im both a chaser and a runner! trying to figure out a compromise.

[Nyert747]

Taurus Venus.

Baby, I do not chase – I’m the *prize* 😘