Strange Coincidence/Timing Soulmate Dream?

[Nicolina]

Hi there I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this. I love my boyfriend we’ve been dating for a while now. Recently while going about my daily routine someone’s path crossed with mine and nothing flirty happened but I got this strange intense vibe llike this person is important? Not a vibe oh this person is attractive or charming or flirty ect then the other night I had a very intense, dream of that random stranger. The dream was very vivid and happy. I then woke up to my boyfriend calling me multiple times until I picked up, he had just woken up from a dream where I told him I was breaking up with him? Its strange because with my job I’ve met lots of guys over the years and would think oh he seems cool or whatever but never had that vibe like this person is supposed to be in my life. That dream was unlike any other. I find it a strange coincidence that the night I had that dream my bf calls me in a panic early that morning because he had a dream that I left him (he normally doesn’t have those dreams). Just to be clear I would never cheat on my boyfriend, if ever I wanted to talk to that random guy I’d breakup with my boyfriend. Anyway maybe its just a coincidence but its weird timing that the night I have that dream my biyfriend has a dream that I leave him, what do you think?

Discussion

[khaki53]

I have an alternative view, that only comes from my own experience and I can’t say with any confidence that it would be applicable to you. But the thought popped up that it may be useful here.

I have never wanted to buy a house ever. I have always wanted and still want to be debt free and commitment free so I can move anywhere at any time. About two months ago, I suddenly had this urge to buy a house so intense it was consuming me. I was looking at houses daily, told a few friends (super rare for me), and even met with a real estate agent. After a few weeks being 1000% committed to this process, I suddenly realized I didn’t want a house anymore and just like that I called it off just as quickly as it’s started.

And then the next day, I rearranged my room, cleaned out my closet, and downsized about a tenth of everything I own, which already isn’t much. That threw up red flags in my head, curious why I thought I’d want a house when I can’t even keep a bedrooms worth of furniture.

It turns out, my severe aversion to owning things isn’t just a desire for easy travel. It’s actually a pretty deep rooted trauma response related to mom. I had a nightmare that night that I was running away from her, but I was weighed down by this massive, highly conspicuous, heavy backpack and when I woke up, everything made sense.

The house urge wasn’t about a house. It was an effort by my body to make me see that I’m still running away from childhood trauma.

If you think your relationship is otherwise stable, and this new longing seems extremely unfamiliar to you, I’d say you should be curious with it and see where it takes you, but you should also be cautious about why it’s really there. It could be your subconscious telling you that you aren’t happy, or it could be telling you that you are, or it could be trying to say bigger themes like maybe you like to self sabotage, or maybe you can’t be happy with things as they are. You could also relate with this new person on a spiritual/energetic level, but that never gaurantees it would manifest in the physical.

[MylifeasAllison]

A soulmate doesn’t have to be a lover. it can just be a friend. Someone with whom you were meant to cross paths with. So don’t worry about the boyfriend.

[SeaworthinessFit1278]

There are always options and possibilities in life. It looks like youre being shown a choice. Sometimes fate gives you these pushes and shows you someones importance as being part of a potential future. At the end of the day, you choose.

[roguerabbitqueen]

Heads up to be wary of anyone who’s done a spell on you is my advice

[plantspirit]

Might be your twin flame

[holyshamoleyalright]

I think you picked up energetically that you know this man in some form, whether from a parallel life or maybe even planned for this life at some point. But like others are saying here, that does not mean it’s romantic, sexual, or even good for you. And plans can change.

I think on some level, your boyfriend felt that wave of emotion you experienced when you saw the other guy, and for him, it showed up in dream form. You and your BF share an energetic bond, so it’s natural he felt something that hit you so strongly.

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Sounds like a soulmate connection from a past life. They can be intense, like it sparks something inside, but don’t worry it’s normal.