Tips to Ensure a Better Medium Reading. What to Expect.

[Trent]

I am posting and updating my first post, in the hope that it will be of use.

Tip 1: When you contact a reader, do not give the medium too much information.

A good reader can read when you give them a first name or a relationship. Some readers like a photograph. Good readers do not need to fish. Cold readers google and fish.

Tip 2: Ask specific questions. “Does anyone have any information for me,”? Or, “Does anyone sense anything,” is too vague. What do you want to know? Be specific.

Don’t think the reader is going to be able to get grandma to tell you if you are going to win the Lottery. The reader may not necessarily be able to contact everyone on your list. The spirit that can and needs to come through, will come through.Spirit has their own agendas and reasons for cooperating.

The spirit that needs or wants to speak to you will be the one that contacts the medium. Your first love interest who was married to someone else for ten years, may not want to speak to you.

If your actions led directly to the death of another person, they may not want to speak to you.

If Great Grandpa was a racist, a murderer or a child molester, We may not want to speak to him. We see things and feel things that the client we are reading for, does not have to experience. There are no secrets over there.

We may be in contact with the spirit before the reading. We feel their pain. We see things you did not see. All mediums are also psychic. It does affect us. It is what we do. We have more contact with the situations that they were in, than the client.

Please respect that. We feel the emotional and physical pain you may have merely heard about or observed.

So, please don’t try to mislead the reader. We will know. Don’t accuse us of not being sensitive enough to your issues. We have to experience the deceased issues, see or feel the heart attack, watch the suicide. We are psychic. We know. and we still volunteer.

Tip 4: Make and keep an appointment.

We have lives and obligations. As with any other professional or volunteer, our time matters. If you cannot keep an appointment, contact us. If you forget your appointment, contact us. If you expect us to read you in an instant on chat, we may be reading another person. Professional courtesy applies.

Almost every day, someone requests an on the spot reading. DO you demand that your dentist fire up the drill without warning?

Tip 4: Understand that we do not always get name or fine details. The Reading is better if it is relevant.

We will get images, senses, feelings and other information. what comes through is what you need to hear, or what they are willing to share.

We are speaking to spirit. Spirit is more concerned with feeling and emotions than where you left the TV remote.

So your best friend who passed in 1962, may simply want to tell you he saw your wedding and he is glad he has a namesake.

Tip 5: Please don’t call your reader a liar or argue with them about what they are perceiving. If you don’t agree, don’t use that reader again.

Repeated messaging or arguing does not change what we see or sense at all.

Know that “reading” is what we do. We are compelled by compassion to do it. We care. We have many skills. They are not the same from medium to medium. We want to give you the best reading that we can.

Discussion

[dmarie1983]

You’re so cool. Thanks for sharing 🙂

[SoCalMama77]

Hi. I’m having my very first reading tomorrow. I’m very nervous because my daughter died two years ago. She was just under one years old. I realize she may not be the one who communicates with me, and I’m doing my best to be open to that. Should I come with questions or is it ok to just come with an open heart ?

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Saw you post on another thread and decided to follow you, as I have been wanting to get a reading, this was a very helpful post 🙂

[broken-nail]

Just out of curiosity, are readings for those that you are close to, that passed away only? Or could it be a spirit guide, some long since passed away family member, someone you didn’t know but knew you (passed away when you were a child) or someone/thing completely unrelated?

[npsee]

Very well said. As a medium and a psychic I 100 percent agree

[kimbringers]

Thank you. You explained that very well and of course you are so accurate ????

[el4toon]

Thank you for moderating this sub.

Mediums are channels between this world and the next. Some intuits are not mediums.

[Over-Hall]

Amazing post, very helpful!

[Indiana_rico]

Question, can I have a reading without giving any information to the medium?

[RicottaPuffs]

That depends on the medium. Some.mediums need something to connect them to the client.

[TwinOne116]

I recently lost my twin, unexpectedly. I’m so lost without him but feel him with me. I know he wants to connect with me from a medium that spoke to his ex girlfriend. I’m hoping and praying he does. I have one important question…..what happened?

[Pandanesie]

Ah this hits the nail so hard!! I wish everyone would read this!