Venus in 11th – problems that might occur?

[Charles]

I was wondering what the problematic aspects of this placement would be.

Also, what about the pros?

Discussion

[YaaaDingus]

Friendship (being able to talk and relax and hang out) is an important part of romantic relationships. Venus 11th house natives may feel they have to be friends with someone before they take things to the dating stage, or they may want to date their friends. There can be a tendency to blur the line between friendship and romance.

It’s good for attracting new relationships in general. With the 11th house being the house of friends, audiences, and the house of good fortune, chance encounters with people who align with the same goals or interests may be more frequent for Venus 11th house people.

[SagStellium85]

In traditional astrology the 11th is the house of good “spirit”. It was considered by the best “non-angular” house, and I’ve saw where some considered it at least equal to the Descendant or IC

[giiirasol]

people looking up to you too much or trying to emulate you in a way that feels icky, can bring distrust from others because you seem “too friendly” and many people interpret that as being fake, everybody in your group of friends/close to you feels like your love life has to involve them in some way and some may even talk about your dating life even if you’re not around… however venus in 11H is one of the joyous places venus can be as it gives great easy for networking and in many cases people tend to view you rather positively more often than thinking you’re fake so it’s all good.

also venus in 11H is a good placement for joint resources like friends offering to help you wih stuff even before you can ask them

[yeagsamy]

I have Venus in the 11th and 12th house. I feel a little lost on what it means too.

[succulentsplease]

I’m also new so idk, but I feel like you falling in love with friends and friends falling in love with you (and it maybe not being reciprocated)?