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    I’ll start with a background about me and my gifts. When I was younger I could see ghost, even saw an angle or maybe it was the devil… I don’t know. Anyways, I could always feel them and see them clearly as normal humans with fx makeup on. But since I was young I hardly slept so my mother worried about my health she took me to a man and he forced my 3rd eye closed, now I can’t see them… well I rarely see them. They come to me as shadows, which is honestly more terrifying, or I’ll be able to see outlines of their body shape.

    I’ve been trying to open my eyes and get in touch with my spiritual side, I’ve also been practicing different things like divination or gambling in witchcraft, wicca, and crystals. I also grew up in a very Christian household so I got a lot of Christian guilt when doing those things.

    But lately I had a ghost living in my room, I could always see their shadows and outlines but they always stood in the same area. They always stood right by my bed looking at me sleep or laying on the bed with my phone. I wasn’t scared or they didn’t feel ill willing, but it was my room, my safe place and I wanted them out. So I sage my room, the house as well. I then made black salt and only placed it in my room by the windows and door frame. To be honest best sleep I’ve had in years. But was it rude to just kick them out like that? Also I try not to speak to them or acknowledge their existence because they usually would never leave me alone. Constant talking, Constant pop ups, not mention they would move things around or drop things to get my attention. And once one knows all of them start coming to move in.

  • Was I being rude for just wanting my personal space?

     Realistic-Bike6723 updated 2 years, 4 months ago 2 Members · 3 Replies
  • AnAnonymousHelp

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    December 13, 2021 at 3:51 pm

    Not rude at all. You ask them to get out as you would if you come home and there’s a stranger there. They shouldn’t be there in the first place. But perhaps don’t ask them to leave with anger. Do it with understanding that they are a bit lost.

    Good luck. 🙂

  • posties13

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    December 13, 2021 at 3:51 pm

    Everyone is entitled to “safe space”. It’s not rude at all. We all need down time. By them waiting outside shows they respect you. I’m not sure if “ghosts” feel lonely but often enough if they find someone like you they want to be around you. xx

  • TheSaltyTarot

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    December 13, 2021 at 3:51 pm

    Nah, everyone ought to have privacy and space. *They* were the ones being rude.

    It’s good that sage worked for you, but I’d also recommend more energy-based ways to ward and shield: https://old.reddit.com/r/Mediums/comments/qnj5u0/how_to_ground_center_and_shield/

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