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What are your self-care tips during Venus Rx?
updated 9 months, 3 weeks ago
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– Not taking the apparent distance in personal relationships as a sign that you need to put more effort in! It’s just transitory and might lead you to give more off of yourself than you’re able to in the long run (i.e. a friendship seems more distant than usual -> not letting yourself think I need to be doing x y and z more to get back to normal; not thinking that someone not appearing to be into you is a sign that you should do x y and z to get them to like you)
– No one night stands or “purely for excitement” relationships during Rx
– Stay at home more during weekend nights
– Listen more and be more mindful before speaking to not give off any wrong impressionsPersonally, I’ll keep it up until my natal Venus enters a trine with transitioning Venus by late August. Then I might indulge a bit more!
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It hit me right away on the first day. For me, self-care is to remind myself there is no rush. Just breathe. I am allowed to say what I want and what I need. I don’t have to do anything I’m not comfortable with. I keep that in mind every day.
But holy crap Venus Rx is so freaking strong right now, way more than I anticipated 😅 -
Mines in 10th libra natally, opposing Jupiter rx (this year is my Jupiter return). Just had a conversation w my boss – he brought it up – about a coworker taking advantage (they have been taking shitloads of extra vacation every summer for the last 4ish years, which I have to cover – there’s nobody else. We have a short summer where I live & I’m jealous they have the privilege to take that time off to go on adventures) We agree it’s not normal or fair, and I mentioned again what I have said before, which is that if the schedule was more equitable the rest of the year I would be cooler with trading time off with them in summer so they can take their vacays & I won’t feel as put out. As it is, I can’t really afford vacations & trips or even just extra time off (if like I traded some days off with them) because I don’t have enough shifts to bank extra money through the rest of the year. So I end up being kinda muscled into giving up huge chunks of my Summer. So hopefully something comes from that exchange, and the next big holiday they take I’d like for him to decide to give me some of their regular nights (maybe even just 2 more shifts a month even) through the rest of the year. I make great money when I work, but haven’t been working as much as I’d like because they have worked there longer & have a regular schedule they like.
I think conversations like that might be self care for 10th house Venus.
I also deep cleaned my house the other day, and where normally I hold onto things or like, post them to sell if I am ready to get rid of things, right now I feel like I just want to declutter, drop em off at a thrift store or whatever and get those things off my plate.
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I met an amazing girl 2 weeks ago, instant connection and everything. We saw each other twice since then but we don’t see each other a lot and we keep our distance because we are both very busy and indépendant. I can feel myself getting more and more interested tho. What can I expect with Vx? Is she going to fall out of interest cause it was just a fling? Or she will see clear about us or me after Vx?
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Lots of self love. Positive music on loving you. Yoga. loved this yoga exercise for self love https://youtu.be/jq2qnKwgEzg
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Eh! It’s my birthday in two weeks. Let’s just say that I have been treating myself far too well (read shopping for myself grandly) giving myself my birthday as an excuse. 🥳😅
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y’all I’m new to this im a Virgo rising and libra Venus
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The block button. I thought it wasn’t a thing, but every ex from the last 15 years has tried to get a hold of me. Some of these people I haven’t spoken to in years. Some have reasons, some don’t. It’s a kinda whacky. I didn’t think this would happen.
